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A Renewed Mission

We are so excited to revive our blog this year, as we claw our way out of COVID survival mode. My name is Sarah Moscicke, and many of you may know me as a Villa di Maria guide. I worked for the last two years as the guide in the Racks and Tubes Lower Elementary Classroom and am excited to now begin contributing to VdM’s blog, as I also care for my two young boys at home.Throughout the pandemic, the work of the child has not stopped and VdM has continued to be committed to our mission:

“We support each child to develop academic excellence and the ability to embrace and respond to the challenges of today’s world with innovation, compassion, determination, grace, and kindness.”

The challenges of our world today and over the past two years are significant, but the VdM community of guides, assistants, parents, and children has met these challenges with determination, innovation, and kindness. We see the qualities of our mission statement evidenced in the children each day in the classroom and in the incredible support of our families. I’m so excited to share the beautiful moments from our community with you through the stories in this blog. We hope they inspire you with the optimism of the Montessori philosophy, offer hope for the present moment, and invite you to enter into the family that is Villa di Maria and the wider Montessori community.As Dr. Montessori said, “the child is both a hope and a promise for the future.” May the pages of this blog continue to manifest and celebrate this ideal!  

How's It Been Going?

Way back in March 2020, as SARS-CoV-2 took hold of the world, Villa di Maria was quickly forced to take on unprecedented challenges and shift into pandemic mode. Our campus was shut down and each of us—child, parent, and staff member—was suddenly separated from the rest of our community.To close out 2020 Villa di Maria went online—our team of guides, assistants, staff members, and parents came together to develop distance learning plans for every level. Was it the same as being together on campus? No. Was it an incredible feat of creativity, innovation, and hard work? Absolutely. Do we ever want to do it again? Not really, no. But... hear me out... it hasn't been all bad.We were able to reopen for the 2020-2021 school year with both on-campus and distance-learning programs for our elementary students. On campus, we used the separated buildings and abundant outdoor space of our campus to our advantage and implemented protocols and procedures to keep everyone as safe as we possibly could. Off campus, our learning-from-a-distance elementary students logged in together daily to meet with their guides, assistants, and some invaluable admin-support team members.We also added to our community at the start of the 2020-2021 school year with a brand new Young Children's Community (YCC) for children as young as 14 months. We are proud to say that the YCC is a thriving program (and a joy to witness!).So, the first part of pandemic-mode Villa di Maria has had its upsides, and for that we are grateful.As for the difficulties, there have been many. The eons years since spring 2020 have been tough on everyone—we haven’t yet met the person who has remained unfazed by the pandemic. As a school, we faced enrollment and financial challenges. As a community, we dealt with the pressures of a vigilant effort to slow the spread of SARS-CoV-2 on our campus. Our staff and families have sacrificed and endured—and all for the greater good.Categorically, emphatically, and whole-heartedly, it is because of our community that VdM is still going strong. Our children, parents, and staff are all dedicated to the same goal, to keep Villa di Maria open on campus and thriving during the ongoing pandemic. We've been doing it, and we will keep on doing it. We are heading into 2022 (Omicron notwithstanding) encouraged and excited.In the thick of the pandemic, our resources were stretched thin. Our pandemic response efforts dominated our administrative time and sadly, our blog went dormant.We love our blog and the community it fosters. We are proud to have a reach that encompasses and stretches beyond the VdM community. Over the years, our blog has connected us with incredible humans across the globe and allowed us to brag about highlight some of the amazing moments that happen here at VdM. It is our hope that this blog creates conversations with parents, Montessori practitioners, and educators alike. Everyone is welcome! Over the next few weeks, you will see us getting back up and running, re-establishing our cadence and content. Stay tuned and share posts you like with people you love.In the meantime, here are a few of favorite posts:

  

We are VdM: The Jöstlein Family

The very best part of Villa di Maria is our people. Our community of families, faculty and staff is something to be proud of. In this series, We are VdM, we’ll highlight the talents, humor, energies and wisdom of some of our amazing people. Today we'll meet one of longtime families: Tricia, Thomas, Klaus and Max Jöstlein. The Jöstleins have been a part of Villa di Maria for many years. Their older son Klaus graduated in 2019, and their younger son Max is currently a fourth-year in Upper Elementary. Tricia and Thomas are also on campus regularly—most recently, Thomas treated the elementary classrooms to an outdoor concert last fall and Tricia was a substitute guide in the YCC this past winter.Villa di Maria: Tell us a bit about you and your family. Where are you from and what brought you to St. Louis?Tricia: Thomas and I both grew up in the midwest and we met at Rice University in Houston, where we studied French Horn performance.  We followed each other to various orchestra jobs (Honolulu, Richmond, Omaha, Kansas City, New York) until Thomas was hired by the St. Louis Symphony in 2010.  We have loved being in St. Louis.

VdM: How did you find Montessori and what brought you to Villa di Maria?

The Jöstleins: After a friend introduced us to Montessori, we found a nearby Montessori preschool for Klaus.  During his culminating year, Tricia attended the Silent Journey at Villa and we knew immediately that Klaus would thrive in the Montessori elementary environment. (And we were right!)  Max joined VdM the following year as a founding member of P3. All of a sudden, seven years later, he's in Upper El!Tricia was so taken with Montessori education that she studied for three summers at the Montessori Training Center in  Milwaukee to become an elementary guide. While she did not go on to teach full time, it gave her a deep appreciation for the investment made by all the VdM guides. Tricia occasionally fills in as a sub at the Montessori Lab School.VdM: Tell us about your backgrounds, what do you and your spouse do career-wise?The Jöstleins: We are both professional musicians, which is terrific in so many ways.  Besides the opportunities to perform at Powell, Thomas has played in great halls around the world, including a historic concert in North Korea when he was a member of the New York Philharmonic. Tricia is a frequent sub with the SLSO, plays for Winter Opera St. Louis, and is adjunct at Webster University.VdM: Do you have any hobbies? How do you and your family enjoy spending your spare time?The Jöstleins: We enjoy a lot of things in common, like travel, cooking, board games, and tennis.  We also have tremendous opportunities that music affords. Klaus (violin) and Max (cello) are becoming really fine musicians and it's great to play music together.During the pandemic we hosted 173 free concerts on our front lawn.  With the help of many friends, we branched out beyond classical music, to jazz, bluegrass, ragtime, Irish, story telling, and even a Beatles cover night!  Our Syrian friends sold their amazing falafel, and Klaus and Max started quite a lemonade operation.  The concerts provided a unique way to expand our musical horizons, connect with our neighbors, and meet new people during an otherwise fraught time.VdM: A question for Klaus - Where are you now? Tell us a little about your new school and what you're up to.The Jöstleins: Klaus mostly goes around the house screeching and annoying his little brother. And attending the College School in Webster Groves.VdM: For Max - Tell us one of your favorite Villa di Maria memories (so far!).The Jöstleins: Max loved playing his cello for his Racks and Tubes classmates last spring on Zoom. They were amazed at his abilities!

Thank you to Tricia, Thomas, Klaus and Max! Villa di Maria would not be the same without you.
Photos courtesy of the Jöstlein family.

Remembering, Honoring and Celebrating Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.

Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was a Baptist minister and civil rights activist who was assassinated on the balcony of the Lorraine Motel in Memphis, Tennessee on April 4, 1968. He was 39 years old.Dr. King spent his lifetime exposing the unfair and cruel treatment of African Americans throughout the United States. He fought for racial and economic equality and inspired countless others to do the same in the Civil Rights Movement.Today we take the time to honor the life, the work and the legacy of Dr. King. There are several online opportunities to do just that.

Thank you, Dr. King. Rest in peace.

We are VdM: The Ferber Family

The very best part of Villa di Maria is our people. Our community of families, faculty and staff is something to be proud of. In this series, We are VdM, we’ll highlight the talents, humor, energies and wisdom of some of our amazing people. Today we'll meet the Jody, Alan, Theo and Elliott Ferber. Theo is a new Villa di Maria student this year; he is in his second year in the Checkerboard Lower Elementary classroom.

Villa di Maria: Tell us a bit about you and your family. Where are you from and what brought you to St. Louis?The Ferbers: Alan was born and raised in the Bay Area of California, and went to UCLA. Jody lived in MO, IN, OH, and NC as a child—and notably, in Kirkwood from age 7-11! Jody went to the Cleveland Institute of Music, UC Berkeley, and Manhattan School of Music for undergrad & grad degrees. We met while playing a chamber music rehearsal at the Musicians' Union in Manhattan in 2004, and lived in the NYC area until summer 2020. After we had our second son Elliott in the fall of 2018, we knew we were ready to live in a smaller city, and began to weigh options.We chose St. Louis because Jody's parents live in Labadie, just west of the city, and we were attracted to the high level of cultural offerings here in a midsize city. A strange coincidence: as a child, Jody moved to St. Louis in the summer before 2nd grade, and now 34 years later, our oldest son Theo moved to St. Louis the summer before his 2nd year!

VdM: How did you find Villa di Maria?The Ferbers: Early in the summer, when we decided to move to St. Louis, we did lots of research on different school options and drove by many different schools.  Theo (a 2nd year in Checkerboard) was with us when we first drove by VdM. As soon as he saw the playground made of cedar structures, he exclaimed, "I want to go to school here!!" We set up a meeting with Laura, and were impressed by the large outdoor campus with woods and garden, and inspiring indoor facility. The clear priorities of hands-on, tactile, and experiential learning, as well as appropriate outdoor recreational time, were important to us.Laura's anecdotes about various VdM students and their interests/pursuits helped us know that VdM would be a great fit for Theo. In NY, Theo went to a traditional public school for K and 1st grade. We could tell half-way through 1st grade that we needed to find a learning environment where his enthusiasm and creativity for hands-on learning would be embraced and supported as part of his school day. We started to explore Montessori schools last winter in NY, and when we decided to move to St. Louis, we were really glad see options here, as well. We feel so lucky to have found VdM, and after only a few months, we see Theo's enthusiasm for learning reignited! Our whole family is enjoying the process of learning all about Montessori, and both Mom and Dad are jealous and want to be Montessori students!VdM: Tell us about your backgrounds, what do you and your spouse do career-wise?The Ferbers: We are both professional musicians. Alan is a trombonist, composer, and arranger, working in jazz and commercial music, and is adjunct jazz faculty at NYU Steinhardt School. He writes music for his own Big Band and Jazz Nonet, as well as arrangements and original commissions for other artists and ensembles. Many recent projects have been for vocalists with big band. He co-teaches the BMI Workshop, a weekly coaching for professional musicians to improve their big band composing.Jody is a cellist, composer, and vocalist. Although she is classically trained, she plays a lot of different styles of music and often plays with jazz artists. Alan and Jody record regularly for albums, films, and commercials, and have both released a number of albums as composer/bandleader. You can hear Alan's music at www.alanferber.com and Jody's music at www.jodyredhageferber.com. Jody also teaches private cello lessons and leads the Jitterbugs: Jazz for Kids online classes. Since 2017, Alan and Jody have performed chamber jazz as the Ferber Duo, and had a recent livestream concert at the World Chess Hall of Fame here in St. Louis. (Alan's identical twin brother Mark joined us for that concert on drums—so this time, Ferber Trio!)VdM: Do you have any hobbies? How do you and your family enjoy spending your spare time?The Ferbers: We love to hike, camp, bike, kayak, and make nature art together (we always have a "collections" box of cool looking natural materials we've found). We love to travel, so when one parent has a concert in a great location, we try to bring the family along, when possible. Also, Theo plays the drums, so we often play "Family Band." (Elliott, age 2, is our dancer!). Theo went through a huge Beatles phase in 1st grade, so we learned "Come Together," "Ticket to Ride," and "Hey Jude" as Family Band. As anyone in Checkerboard knows, Theo loves baseball, so we often go to our local Fox Park and play at the baseball diamond. Theo is a natural gardener and is constantly starting plants from seed—so although Mom and Dad don't have green thumbs, Theo is encouraging us to learn and stretch. This year Theo planted dozens of seeds in pots during the 2nd week of COVID lockdown and we had our first garden with actually edible proceeds this summer: kale, chard, tomatoes, basil, cilantro, beans, and carrots. Yum!VdM: What are you most looking forward to this school year?The Ferbers: We are so excited for Theo to learn in the Montessori style, and for him to have the opportunity to make lot of new friends. We are also enjoying spending time with the grandparents, with whom we've been in a "bubble" since June. It's been really special for the boys to see them often, something we never could do before when we lived so far apart! Although it's a challenging time to get to know a new city, we're really enjoying take-out from SO many yummy St. Louis restaurants, and have tried to catch live outdoor music when possible!VdM: A question for Theo - What is one of your favorite things to do at school, so far?Theo: Grammer Box III, because of the colored water, and you get to use the science stuff to make the colored water.  It is SO FUN!Thank you Jody, Alan, Theo and Elliott! Welcome to Villa di Maria—we are thrilled to have you in the VdM community.Photos courtesy of the Ferber family.

We are VdM: Jonathan, Abadi and Mikie

The very best part of Villa di Maria is our people. Our community of families, faculty and staff is something to be proud of. In this series, We are VdM, we’ll highlight the talents, humor, energies and wisdom of some of our amazing people. Today we'll meet Jonathan Putra and his parents Abadi Kurniawan and Mikie Rachman. Jonathan and his family are new to Villa di Maria this year; Jonathan is in his first year in the Racks & Tubes Lower Elementary classroom.Villa di Maria: Where are you from and what brought you to St. Louis?Mikie: We were born and grew up in Jakarta, Indonesia. I moved to St. Louis right after high school in 2004 to pursue an undergraduate degree in nursing and my husband (Abadi) moved to St. Louis in 2007 to continue with his Master's degree in computer science. Even though we grew up in the same city and our house is only 30 minutes away, our first meeting is actually taken place here in St. Louis—10,000 miles away from home. Needless to say, St. Louis is our second home away from home. We decided to start our family in 2013, and Jonathan was born a year later right after the World Cup semi-final match between Argentina and Germany team.VdM: How did you find Montessori and Villa di Maria?Mikie: We heard about Montessori school when Jonathan was in Pre-K, but neither of us knows much about the school philosophy back then. However, when Jonathan was in kindergarten, we learned more about Montessori philosophy from multiple work colleagues who send their children to Montessori school and we really like its teaching philosophy. After doing some research around the St. Louis area, we chose Villa di Maria because we were impressed by everything we saw during the tour. When Jonathan had his chance to experience the school for one full day, he came home really excited and told us that he can't wait to go to this school. VdM: Tell us about your backgrounds, what do you and your spouse do career-wise? Mikie: My husband work as a software engineer at 1904labs, building software for Fortune 500 companies in St. Louis. Outside of his full time work, he’s working on building his own startup with some of his friends. I am currently working as nursing research coordinator at WashU, collaborating with BJC healthcare to expand informatics research activities on their academic medical center. In addition to this full time role, I am also teaching a couple clinical classes for Goldfarb School of Nursing as part of my community service to help prepare future nurses in our region.VdM: Do you have any hobbies? How do you and your family enjoy spending your spare time?Mikie: My husband and Jonathan both love to play video games. Their favorite game is Minecraft. They spent a lot of time building, exploring, and going on an adventure in Minecraft world, and then tell the tale with me afterward. We enjoy experiencing new culinary from different countries, whether by going to restaurants (not so much during pandemic), or by trying out new recipes at home.VdM: What are you most looking forward to this school year?Mikie: Before the Pandemic, we were already excited to have Jonathan experience all different activities at VdM such as going out and cooking activities. Now, we are just happy that Jonathan has the opportunity to go to school in-person and make new friends in his first year at VdM. It was a tough decision to send him to school in person, but all the extra effort by Villa di Maria staff and teachers to make sure all the students can stay safe gave us the confidence and peace of mind.VdM: A question for Jonathan - What is one of your favorite things to do at school so far? Mikie: Jonathan loves spending time outside, exploring the woods while he is at school. Additionally, he also loves learning about Science especially when he has a chance to conduct science experiments. He always excited to share some interesting scientific facts with us while at home.Welcome to Villa di Maria, Jonathan, Abadi and Mikie. We are so happy to have your family here!Uncredited photos courtesy of Mikie Rachman and Abadi Kurniawan.

Upper Elementary Book Club - Fantasy and the Hero's Journey

For the month of November, the Upper Elementary Book Club voted on which genre to explore. And the winner is: fantasy and the hero's journey! Each of the novels below offer nontraditional takes on traditional fantasy or fairy tale elements. Upper Elementary readers will follow characters through adventure and danger as they face their fears, overcome seemingly impossible obstacles and find their true heroic selves. In the mythical town of Zombay, a young orphan named Rownie is determined to find his missing brother. Like all the town's orphans, Rownie lives in the house of an evil witch named Graba, who uses him as a servant. As he is out on one of Graba's errands, Rownie meets a troupe of goblins who travel and put on plays, an activity which is strictly forbidden in Zombay. When Rownie learns the goblins can help him find his brother, he escapes Graba's house and joins their troupe. What follows is an adventure that is sometimes very dark, sometimes funny and always exciting. Goblin Secrets combines elements of fairy tale magic and steampunk fantasy to create an incredible world filled with unforgettable characters.Breadcrumbs is a retelling of Hans Christian Andersen's "The Snow Queen," set in modern-day Minnesota and told from the perspective of 11-year-old Hazel. Hazel's life is not easy. She is adopted and the only dark-skinned person in her family. She doesn't have many friends and is misunderstood by her teachers. And her father left. The one thing Hazel had was Jack, her best friend. But one day, out of nowhere, Jack stopped talking to Hazel. Everyone tells Hazel that boys and girls just grow apart, that it's just a part of growing up, but Hazel knows better. She knows that Jack is cursed and she sets out into the terrifying, snowy woods to find him. Breadcrumbs blends a classic fairy tale with mythology, pop-culture and literary references, and real-life problems into a rich and emotionally powerful story.On her twelfth birthday, Farah and her two best friends must go on a quest to find her little brother Ahmed, who is lost inside an ancient and magical game. Inside the game, the friends find themselves in Paheli, a land full of beautiful Islamic architecture and a bustling market that remind Farah of Bangladesh and India—places that are part of her family's history. The friends must face the game's challenges and defeat the Architect to rescue Ahmed and escape. With the help of a lizard and the pilot of a hot air balloon, the friends face all sorts of magical, mythical creatures, as well as the Architect's spies. The Gauntlet weaves Islamic culture and history together with fantasy and adventure to tell a story of family, friendship and loyalty. This book is also the first book of a series, so readers can follow even more of Farah's adventures!Lola Budge is not like other wombats. She is inquisitive, curious, chatty and bored. All she wants to do is explore. So when all the other wombats are asleep, Lola sneaks out of her burrow to explore Tassie Island, to find out what else is out there in the world. She meets a platypus with a secret message, but doesn't understand it. She heads back to her burrow and finds the other wombats, including her family, being carted away in a cage by the Tasmanian devils. Lola's mother sees her from the cage and shouts out to her to find her uncle. Lola sets off to find him, alone and afraid. Along the way, she meets Melvin and Blue, a rat and a baby penguin, who join her adventure and help her find her true courage and strength. Braver is pure anthropomorphic fantasy, filled with fun, quirky characters and lively adventure.

We are VdM: The Macke Family

The very best part of Villa di Maria is our people. Our community of families, faculty and staff is something to be proud of. In this series, We are VdM, we’ll highlight the energies, talents, humor and wisdom of some of our amazing people. Today we'll meet Jaime, Chris, Tommy and Oliver Macke who joined VdM in 2015. Tommy is in his third year in the Checkerboard Lower Elementary classroom and Oliver just started this year in the Young Children's Community.Villa di Maria: Tell us a bit about you and your family.The Mackes: We are a family of four—Chris, Jaime, Tommy (8 years old in Checkerboard) and Oliver (2.5 years old in YCC). We live in Fox Park in St. Louis city with our two cats, Murray and Zero, and guinea pig Tootsie. I (Jaime) grew up in Wood River, IL, about 25 minutes away, and Chris grew up in the city. When we met, I started spending more time in the city and really loved it, so we decided to stay. We bought a 130 year-old house that seems to need constant attention ?, but we love the old architecture and we have wonderful neighbors. Our extended families are also all in the St. Louis metro area and we’re all pretty close. It gets complicated during the holidays (although, this may be the quietest holiday we’ve ever had!), but we love that the boys get to grow up playing with their cousins.VdM: How did you find Montessori and what brought you to VdM?Jaime: We found Villa before we really knew much about Montessori ?. Tommy was 3 and we had looked at some other preschools and mainstream-type schools but they didn’t feel like a good fit—we were looking for something different. It was also really important to us to find a place that extended all the way through elementary—we didn’t want to school-hop every few years. Villa had popped up in a few of our searches and so we decided to check it out. I still remember that our first conversation with Laura was so wonderful and then when we toured the school and saw one of the primary classes at work, it was exactly what we were looking for.We’ve learned more about Montessori over the years through Villa’s parent talks, reading books and meeting with the guides. The best thing, though, was that we attended the Silent Journey a few years ago. It was really amazing getting to be in each of the environments and experience it for ourselves. For us, it really pulled together everything that we had learned and read and completed the picture for us to understand what Montessori is really about.VdM: Tell us about your backgrounds, what do you and your spouse do career-wise? Jaime: I studied Spanish at SIUE and abroad at a university near Mexico City; I also have a Masters in English from SIUE. I work at a pharmaceutical company as a global business director, but language is still my true passion! Chris received his degree in Business at UMSL and was previously also in the corporate world, working in a global sales management position. But both of us having jobs with lots of international travel was getting to be too much for our family. So last summer, Chris exchanged his corporate job for a stay-at-home dad title, and we haven’t looked back! I have no idea how we would have gotten through this year if we hadn’t made that change. Chris’s passion is acting and movie production, so he and some local contacts formed a partnership and they’re working on producing a film.VdM: Do you have any hobbies? How do you and your family enjoy spending your spare time?Jaime: We travel a lot (or, we did) and it’s our favorite thing to do! We love taking the boys to new places. Our family also loves the water, so we do a lot of swimming year round. At home, we walk to parks when the weather cooperates and when it doesn’t, we do a lot of game and movie nights. Both boys have a LOT of energy, so we try to stay busy ?.VdM: What are you most looking forward to this school year?Jaime: We are honestly just so happy that our boys have the opportunity to be in school. Distance learning, even with one of us being a full-time stay-at-home parent, was challenging for our family, and Tommy really loves being in his classroom, working with his peers. We’re also super excited that Oliver has been able to join Villa in the YCC. We were so excited when the program was announced and we couldn’t have been happier when we learned that he would be with Reghan and Jess every day (Tommy had a wonderful experience in their primary environment!). Oliver really loves being at Villa and has been thriving in the new environment!VdM: A question for Tommy - What is one of your favorite memories of Villa di Maria, so far? Tommy: When I moved up to Lower Elementary and found out that I was in the same class as my friends!

Thank you, Jaime, Chris, Tommy and Oliver!

Photos courtesy of the Macke family, Melissa LeBeau and Carrie Tallon.

What a Great Question! Cultivating Curiosity in Montessori

Some photos in this post were taken before the COVID-19 pandemic.

I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother [for] the most useful gift, that gift would be curiosity. Eleanor Roosevelt

Over the years, our guides have hosted numerous on-campus events to deepen our community's understanding of Montessori and how we implement it here at Villa di Maria. As a parent and a staff member I've attended quite a few of these events and I can honestly say that each and every one has reinforced my appreciation for our guides' and assistants' dedication to our students.I could write an entire post gushing about the wisdom our guides share at each of these events, but that is a topic for another day. Today I want to share something from the events that has especially resonated with me because it so simply and precisely sums up one of the most important principles of a Montessori education: the cultivation of a lifelong love of learning through the encouragement and promotion of the child's innate curiosity. This topic comes up regularly at events, in conversations about what sets Montessori apart from traditional methods of education. And the best summary of it I've heard was given by Upper Elementary Guide Rebecca Callendar when she said that her favorite way to meet her students' questions is with... What a great question!  This response, as simple as it seems, is really quite powerful. If you've spent any time with children, you know that they are dedicated, persistent (sometimes relentless) question-askers. The sky, their breakfast, the neighbor's car, the leaves on the trees, the street lights, the huge eyebrows on that man at the grocery store... nothing is spared the curiosity of children. They will ask questions about all of it. All. Of. It.When they are very young, children are taking in everything around them—collecting endless data from their surroundings. They begin to store, categorize, quantify and sort that data, to process the world with countless repetitions of  who?, what?, when?, where? and, of course, WHY?As they get older, their questions increase and become more complicated as they begin to use their reasoning minds and develop their imaginations—as they begin to practice abstract thought.Asking questions is the primary method children use to learn. So when adults meet their questions with statements like What a great question!, we are sending a powerful message. Multiple powerful messages, in fact. We are teaching children that they are allowed to actively participate, and even take control, in their learning; that their curiosity, their drive to know more and more about the world, is a positive (a great!) thing; and that their voice matters and is being heard.And that's not all! In addition to the confidence-promoting benefits listed above, there's something else happening, something a bit more... strategic. When we say, What a great question!, we are actually withholding an answer. Think back again to any time you've spent with any child, to when those questions started flowing. The easiest thing to do would be to just answer. Or to change the subject or invoke the quiet game. But ending a question with an answer or a redirect puts a stop to the learning.Of course there are some questions that call for simple answers, but I would go out on a limb to say that most questions being asked by a child aren't simple. Most questions are an indication that synapses are firing, that intellectual curiosity is at work, that discovery is happening, that we are in a moment when the child is inspired and motivated to learn.

It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer. Albert Einstein

What a great question! seizes that moment of inspiration and motivation and turns into an opportunity for deeper learning. What a great question! isn't the end of the conversation. It's the beginning. It is followed by any number of prompts to further engage the child in learning. The guide might suggest the child seek out a friend to discuss the question; she might offer a list of resources for the child to explore and find answers; she might suggest a research project or report; or she might guide the child toward more questions, toward a deeper exploration. Because here's the strategy: the ultimate goal of the guide in a Montessori environment is not to fill a child's head with answers and facts. The ultimate goal is to foster a true, lifelong ability to learn.

Higher Order Thinking and Metacognition

As academic as these concepts might sound, higher order thinking and metacognition are routine practices that most of us engage in every day. If you've been to a book club, deliberated over a large purchase or argued over politics, you've engaged in higher order thinking. And if you've ever thought about what you're thinking—if you've caught yourself being distracted or questioned your own thoughts on something—that's metacognition. I've included some resources at the bottom of this post if you want to read more about these concepts and their more formal applications in the field of education.Higher order thinking is the thinking we do that goes beyond memorization and recollection of facts. It's the deeper cognitive processing that happens when we analyze, evaluate, compare, contrast, synthesize information, think critically, think creatively, use metaphors and analogies, make inferences, express opinions, make judgments and engage in what-if thinking.Strictly speaking, metacognition is a form of higher order thinking. I'm giving it its own spotlight here because it carries with it something I believe the world could use a little more of these days. Research shows that when we think about our own thinking, we become more self-aware and possibly more empathetic.So, higher order thinking, including metacognition, is the ultimate goal for the Montessori-educated child. But why? It is the kind of thinking that's more complex, requires more concentration, more time, more work. It is, frankly, harder. And it also the kind of thinking that inspires deeper research and encourages students to explore. It fosters creativity and leads to discoveries. It helps children navigate difficult social situations and develops empathy. It has been shown to strengthen the brain by creating new synapses. And most importantly it instills in children a confidence in their own intellect. It gives them a true love of learning.And it all starts with something that children bring with them naturally—an endless, wonder-filled curiosity.

References and Additional Resources

Photos courtesy of Melinda Smith and Melissa LeBeau. 

The Expectation Effect, Montessori, and Batman

Children are as independent as you expect them to be. Dr. Maria Montessori

Shortly after my daughter started at Villa di Maria at three years old, I found myself explaining why we chose Montessori to a family member who was plainly critical of our choice. I started by telling him all the reasons that jumped to my mind as relatable, reasons that would, frankly, move us through the conversation and onto other topics—I went to a Montessori school myself, the beautiful campus and classrooms, the hands-on learning, the outdoor time... and my favorite, Montessori does not underestimate what children can do and encourages them to learn and grow and do independently. In that conversation I gave the example of vegetable cutting—a favorite task of many a child in a Montessori Children's House.And that's when I was reminded that the notion that a child can do things independently—or even should do things independently—is not universal. The family member was upset by the idea that a three-year old would use a knife. "Why in the world," he asked (and I am paraphrasing from memory), "would it matter if a little kid used a knife? Why would you waste time teaching that? It will take forever, and she's just going to cut herself. No three-year old needs to use a knife.""It's not about the knife!" and "Don't underestimate my child!" was what I wanted to say (shout). But I didn't, because while I knew intuitively the importance of a child's ability to complete tasks like vegetable cutting independently, I could not, right then, articulate the answers.Which brings me to what might seem like a hard left turn: a 2015 episode of the podcast Invisibilia called "How to Become Batman." The episode is about a behavioral/psychological phenomenon called the Expectation Effect, also known as the Pygmalion Effect, which shows that our expectations of others can shape their behaviors.There are quite a few resources out there about the Expectation Effect from the realms sociology and psychology and Montessori pedagogy. I've listed some in the reference and resource list below. But I want to focus on "How to Become Batman" because it contains what I think is a perfect example of how the expectations we set for our children can shape what they are actually able to achieve, for better or worse.

When you lighten someone's load, you don't allow them to expand. Dan Norris, Vermont Association for the Blind 

In the episode we meet two men, both blind since a very young age, who grew up with very different expectations set for them. One, Adam, grew up being told he needed to be protected and assisted in the world, that there was very little he could do on his own because he was blind. The other, Daniel, grew up understanding that he could do anything that a sighted child could do. Each boy met the expectations set for him. By the time he was 11 or 12, Adam required assistance to do just about everything. At that same age, Daniel was getting to and from school, climbing trees, running, playing with other kids and riding a bike completely independently, using self-taught echolocation.Adam and Daniel's lives, their experiences, were very different because the expectations set for them were very different. It isn't that Daniel had special training or therapies that taught him to do the things he could do, things that were pretty typical for a sighted child. It's that he was never told he couldn't do them. The adults in his life set the expectations high enough so that he could expand to meet them.The adults in Adam's life, while their intentions were only good, limited their expectations for Adam. Out of fear for him, an impulse to protect him, they limited what he was allowed to do by himself. They taught him, albeit inadvertently, that he was not capable of doing anything. And since he believed he was incapable, he was incapable.Which brings me back to the significance of independence-building tasks like vegetable cutting in a Montessori classroom. When young children are allowed to practice and eventually master tasks independently, they are learning that they are capable. They are becoming competent. And each time they master a task on their own, they gain confidence and are motivated to keep trying at new things, to keep learning. Their competence grows and feeds their confidence. Their confidence grows and keeps them motivated. It's a virtuous cycle.So, it's not about the knife... or at least, not only about the knife. There are fine motor skills and spatial senses at work when a child learns vegetable cutting. In fact, all of the independence-building tasks and activities in a Montessori environment come with added benefits like the development of a writing grasp and hand-eye coordination or the opportunities to concentrate and practice grace and courtesy. But the real gift of Montessori is that children are allowed to complete these tasks themselves—they are told that they can do it.The value of independence is introduced in the Young Children's Community and Children's House with Practical Life activities but it doesn't stop there. It is encouraged and fostered throughout the Montessori curricula. Each and every lesson, at every level, is given with the goal that the child will ultimately be able to master the work on their own. From zipping a jacket to mastering long division, our guides teach our children how to do the work themselves. It is part of their certification as AMI guides to study the developmental stages of children, to know what children are truly capable of and how to help get them there.So does this mean that the adults in a Montessori environment are never helping children? Not at all. Guides and assistants are in the environments modeling and teaching not only academic lessons, but also social behaviors and even table manners. But they are also doing something that a lot of folks forget to do. They are watching and waiting.Daniel, from "How to Become Batman," talks about this. As an adult he teaches blind children and their families how to raise their expectations of what's possible. The biggest obstacle, he says, is that people who mean well "will jump in half a second too soon, and they rob the [child] from that learning moment." That half-second is exactly what Montessori allows to play out—the opportunity to learn.What is so great about Montessori is that it does not underestimate what children can do. Of course there are limits based on age, size, verbal readiness and other developmental factors. But the adults in Montessori environments recognize those limits as well as what is truly possible within those limits. And we consciously raise our expectations to meet those possibilities.

Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed. Dr. Maria Montessori

Because our children are never told that they cannot dress themselves, do Egyptian multiplication, make their own lunches, work out problems with friends, use big words, fold laundry, write reports, take care of pets, read novels, dissect squid, carry their own belongings, keep their workspaces clean, write in cursive, identify types of leaves and animals, know the order of operations, write a play, compose a song... because our children are never told they cannot do these things, they continue to try, practice and to learn. And they build confidence. Montessori teaches them that they are capable people, that they can do anything.

References and Resources

The Absorbent Mind by Dr. Maria MontessoriExpect the Best: On the Power of ExpectationHow to Become Batman on InvisibiliaIndependence: the Birthplace of Self-EsteemPygmalion Effect: How Expectation Shape Behaviour For Better or WorseResearch every teacher should know: setting expectationsThank you to Melinda Smith, Carrie Tallon, Jessie Braud and Heather Steinman for the photos. 

A Peek into Our Elementary Distance Learning Program

When the pandemic led us to close our campus back in March, right at the start of Spring Break, our incredible and dedicated guides worked at lightening speed to create distance-learning plans for each of our levels. I am not exaggerating when I write that the guides worked straight through Spring Break—around the clock—to convert their homes into distance learning studios. They prepared videos, materials, lesson plans and schedules to keep our student communities connected and learning.At the time, the distance learning plans were meant to be very temporary, to hold us over for a couple of weeks until we would back on campus. Then those weeks turned into more weeks and then months—and we closed out our school year online. Being apart, away from campus, was not what any of us wanted but our guides, assistants, students and parents took on the challenge, dedicated to keeping our children learning and our community strong, and jumped whole-heartedly into daily online class meetings, lessons, book club gatherings, social hours, sing-alongs and read-alouds. The last months of school were a whirlwind, but we did it and we did it well!And it's a good thing we did because we are here, a few weeks into the 2020-2021 school year, and the pandemic is still going strong. Thanks to the hard work our people put in last spring—not to mention the planning, preparing, discussing and tweaking put in by our elementary guides over the summer—we were able to start this school year with a distance-learning option for our elementary students.As we showed you last week, we were lucky (and resourceful!) enough to be able to reopen our campus for all of our Children's House families and any of our Elementary families who chose to return in-person. Around 20% of our Elementary families were more comfortable starting the year in the distance learning program, and we are very proud that we have been able to serve them along with their on-campus peers.This year's elementary program is led by Guide Rebecca Callander, who is online with Lower and Upper Elementary students every day. Distance learning students follow daily and weekly schedules of class meetings, lessons, smaller group meetings and conferences.
One day we will all be on campus again. But until then, we are pretty happy and pretty proud to have a community of guides, assistants, admin staff and parents who are keeping us—all of us—together.Many thanks to Rebecca Callander, Winston Liddy, Sophie Andre and Laura Wheeler for the photos.   

We are Back on Campus!

This morning when we were headed out the door for drop off he said the good thing about leaving school is that you get to go back the next day. I believe it’s safe to say he’s already loving it!a Children's House Parent

After 24 weeks of being apart, we reopened our campus last week! Those 24 weeks were difficult for our staff, our parents, and especially for our children. And while we here at Villa di Maria did plenty of grieving and worrying about the pandemic, we also poured our hearts, minds and labor into planning and preparing for a safe and responsible reopening. And we did it!Well, technically speaking, we are still doing it. The pandemic is not over, and we are fully committed to remaining vigilant in the modified processes and daily routines we put in place to slow the spread of COVID-19. Our plan starts with stable groups, expanded classroom spaces and a face mask requirement (when physical distancing is not possible) in the admin, Children's House and Elementary environments (yes, even the 3-, 4- and 5 year-olds are wearing their masks!). You can read about our full plan here.We are also offering a tandem distance learning program for our Elementary families who are more comfortable postponing their return to campus. We will take a peek (show off!) that plan on next week's blog.Our reopening would not have been possible without these three things: our campus, our staff and our community of parents and grandparents.We are lucky enough to sit on 6 acres of land, which has allowed us to spread out and increase our students' work and play spaces while still allowing them to remain in their stable groups.We are proud to say we have a staff of dedicated and hard working people who put in hours upon hours of discussion, research, planning, preparation, brain power, muscle power and truly thoughtful care to get our campus and classroom environments reconfigured and ready to reopen.And we are grateful, if that word were enough, for our community of parents and grandparents who have contributed their time, skill and dollars to support our reopening. Parent and grandparent volunteers came to our campus in the heat of August to clear shrubbery, expand patios, trim trees, pull weeds and do any other thing we asked of them to modify and beautify our outdoor spaces. Our parents and grandparents have also contributed to our much needed COVID-19 Fund, so that we were able to purchase shade structures, cleaning and disinfecting materials, equipment for the additional play spaces, picnic tables to use for lunch and work, air purifiers and so much more. In just a few short weeks, the fund grew to a little over $20,000 and allowed us to cover these necessary but unexpected costs. There is truly no way we could have reopened without our community's incredible generosity and support.So now we are back on campus. And we are so happy (thrilled! elated!) to be back together! No one more so than our children...

VdM Class of 2020 - Oliver

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their prerecorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distanced ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. This summer we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Oliver.

Oliver is kind, passionate and never afraid to speak their mind. The classroom won't be the same without them. Upper Elementary fourth-year student

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Oliver: My name is Oliver and I am a 6th-year graduate of Villa di Maria. I have been going to this school for 9 years and I am sad to be leaving.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Oliver: I really like to read, cook, and roller skate.

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Oliver: Right now my favorite book is Fablehaven because I really like adventure and plot twists and that 5-book series is full of them! My favorite movie right now would have to be the 2 Maleficent movies. I really like them because it shows how misunderstood and not evil she really is! (I really suggest that you watch it!)

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Oliver: I am proud to have been elected to the UN closing bureau on the topic of the Advancement of Women.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria?

Oliver: I was three years old when I first started at Villa. One of my favorite memories is when my best friend and I would race each other to the playground every day after lunch.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Oliver:I feel like distance learning has really cut off a bond between me and my teachers that would have flourished towards the end of the year and I am heartbroken that it had to happen like this.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Oliver: I really just miss the feel of the environment that all of the other students and teachers make and I think that's what I miss most.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Oliver: The path to the future is really uncertain but I have gotten into a school in Milwaukee called Maryland Avenue Montessori and I am excited to start there!

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Oliver: I am really excited to move on to new Math works especially more Algebra. Something I am not excited about would be the possibility of starting the school year off online.

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Oliver: There isn't much celebrating that I can do this summer because we are all quarantined but I will try my best to be happy.

Thank you, Oliver! It is truly bittersweet to say good bye. Villa di Maria will never be the same without you, but we know you are headed into a fantastic future. We are so proud to call you a VdM alum and we will miss you.

And now... Oliver's graduation speech:

[video width="640" height="360" mp4="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Oliver-speech.mp4"][/video]Photos courtesy of Oliver's family and Melinda Smith. 

VdM Class of 2020: Heidi

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their prerecorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distanced ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. This summer we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Heidi.

Heidi, you're a cinnamon roll because you are sweet and fun. You are delightful and pleasant. You're smart and you have the best personality. You're respectful and daring. We will miss your sweet smile that you brought to the class.Upper Elementary fifth-year students

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Heidi: Hello my name is Heidi and I am a 7th year now I guess, and a few thingies to know about me... Well, I like hanging out with my friends and sleeping and anime shows are cool too. :3 

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Heidi: So some hobbies and interests of mine are, I love to draw character design sorta things, I like to play video games, I enjoy messing around with my friends and reading Harry Potter with Katie and Elspeth. 

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Heidi: I reaalllly love the book Spinning by Tillie Walden and a movie… I like the movie A Silent Voice.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Heidi: I am proud of doing my best to talk to new people. It's kinda hard for me to do that stuff so I try my best.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria?

Heidi:  I started attending Villa right when I could go to school. All the way through Primary to Upper El. 

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Heidi: I, like most others, wish I could have seen my friends before graduating, especially the ones that will be moving soon. I didn't even get to hug them goodbye. It all kinda felt so fast, and it wasn't the graduation I was hoping for but it's better than nothing. 

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Heidi: The biggest thing I miss about being on campus was probably the recess. Just being able to go play around anywhere and just sitting down in the grass and just talk. 

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Heidi: Right now I actually don't know where I’ll be going but it's being worked on and we're still figuring it out.

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Heidi: Well there's quite a few things I'm nervous about going to a new school, but a thing I am exited about it is going on trips maybe.

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Heidi: I'm not sure how I'm “celebrating.” Like, I didn't know that was a thing. Oops. But maybe by just going to a new school? I don't really know :| #kaledudes

Thank you, Heidi! You and your family have been part of Villa di Maria for so long, and we will miss you very much. Good luck in your new school, and don't forget to come visit and tell us all about it.

And now... Heidi's graduation speech:

[video width="960" height="528" mp4="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Heidi-video.mp4"][/video]Photos courtesy of Heidi's family and Melinda Smith.

VdM Class of 2020: Jordan

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their prerecorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distanced ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. This summer we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Jordan.

Jordan is one of the most funniest people we know. He can tell the funniest stories to help cheer you up. But he can also tell the scariest stories to make you jump out of your seat. He comes up with the best games. He is super adventurous. He is our best friend.Upper Elementary fifth-year students

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Jordan: Hi my name is Jordan, and my birthday is in March.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Jordan: I like to draw, watch YouTube, and play video games.

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Jordan:  I don't really have a favorite book because they're all really good.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Jordan: I am really proud that I am learning how to animate, and my personality. I am proud that I have worked on myself and have grown and will continue to do so.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria?

Jordan: I was five years old when I started Villa. My favorite memory from the early days was when I had brought a watch to my school and everyone thought it was really cool. So a small group of people started following me around and staring at my watch and I thought that was really funny. Especially when Mrs. McAuley had to separate us.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Jordan: I feel like it's really depressing having an online school, because we aren't really able to see our friends again and Zoom isn't enough.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Jordan: What I really miss the most about campus is the old lower elementary classroom that would be the office now. I really liked that building for the memories that were there with Mrs. LeBeau and Ms. Nidhi.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Jordan: I will be going to Chesterfield Montessori after Villa.

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Jordan: I am most excited about seeing the people that are from Chesterfield again, because from my visit at Chesterfield the people were really nice. However I am worried that I might have to do online learning which I feel is not the best way to be introduced to a new school.

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Jordan: I usually don't really plan out my summers as I do with the school days but I do have a little theme for each month like the first one would be friends because this is my last year, second would be gaming because I like video games, and last would be water parks/ pools. However, because of COVID-19 I am not sure how I will be celebrating summer other than occasionally going outside and manly staying in.

Jordan is calm, a great role model and the class would not be the same without him. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Thank you, Jordan! We will miss you at Villa, but know you and your family will come back to visit often. We can't wait to see all the great things your future holds!

And now... Jordan's graduation speech:

[video width="1260" height="1080" mp4="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/jordan-video.mp4"][/video]Photos courtesy of Jordan's family and Melinda Smith.

Now Welcoming Children 14 Months to 3 Years!

It follows that at the beginning of his life the individual can accomplish wonders—without effort and quite unconsciously. Dr. Maria Montessori

We are thrilled to announce our newest program, the Young Children's Community (YCC), will open its doors this fall! The YCC will serve children ages 14 months to 3 years Monday through Friday year round. Now enrolling!

The YCC curriculum is thoughtfully and intentionally designed to aid children in the development of language, speech, motor skills and socialization. The environment also allows children opportunities to practice control over their bodies as they are encouraged to dress, eat and use the toilet independently. Children nap as needed and eat together in the environment. The morning program ends at 1:00 p.m., and optional extended afternoon care in the environment is offered at an additional cost.

The program will be led by Guide Reghan McAuley, who is AMI-certified in Assistants to Infancy. Reghan led the P1 Children's House for a decade and is thrilled to be moving into her new role. She'll be joined by her longtime Children's House Assistant, Jess Jente. Reghan and Jess are dedicated to nurturing each child’s needs with grace, love and understanding, and we are proud to have them piloting our YCC program.We are now enrolling in the YCC, but space is limited. We encourage any family interested in the program now or in the near future to complete an online inquiry form here. For parents of children younger than 14 months, please note that a future-enrollment list has already been started, so don't miss your chance to jump on!

For more information about the YCC program, including tuition and fees, click here.

  

VdM Class of 2020: Elspeth

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their prerecorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distanced ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. This summer we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Elspeth.

Elspeth is kind and a great storyteller. She is a hard worker and very determined. She was very welcoming to all the fourt years, and I know the classroom won't be the same without her. Upper Elementary fourth-year student

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Elspeth: My name is Elspeth, and I have been learning at Villa for nine years, so it is pretty much my home away from home. I know it like the back of my hand, anyway. I have a twin, with whom I have always been in the same class (I guess that could only be avoided in primary because when we were in Lower El there was only one class), and even though we don’t get along, it is pretty silly to witness the time when people (mostly classmates) realize that we are related because we are fraternal, and look nothing alike.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Elspeth: My hobbies and interests are quite unique and are definitely not for everyone. I am an aerialist, as in aerial silks, which is a form of circus. Aerial silks would not really be considered a sport, so much as a physical activity. It takes a lot of practice and devotion. I’ve been doing silks for nearly two and a half years, I believe, and I prefer it to any sport. On the days that I am not at a silks studio (which are most days of the week), I am most likely curled up with a book. I love books of any kind, from Pride and Prejudice (which my mom has been telling me to read for years, and I have finally begun) to Great Expectations, which, I admit, is a pretty tough read but I love it just the same. For fun, I enjoy silks and reading, but in addition to that, I love solving Sudoku puzzles, going on yearly national park trips, and taking walks with my friends. 

 

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Elspeth: As for my favorite book or movie, I am not really a fan of movies when I compare them to books. Movies have their own attractions, but books have a much stronger pull over me because of the words. People ask me a lot about why I prefer books, and I say to them, “You probably like movies because you get to see the characters doing things, and you don’t have to try to imagine them. I am the opposite. I like books because as I read I form my own movie in my head, and I get to direct it.”

I don’t think that I could ever choose a favorite book, though my favorite book series would be, without a doubt, Harry Potter. I love books because they allow me to dive into worlds full of mystery, magic, adventures, and friendship, and my love for Harry Potter is because it holds all of those. I love also that Harry Potter is not misogynistic, and that the female characters are charismatic, powerful, chivalrous, strong, intellectual, and brave. I like female characters that stand on their own, and frankly, the entire franchise would’ve crashed and burned without Hermione. No one can deny that.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Elspeth: I am proud of the fact that I am cheeky and logical. My nerve can get me into sticky situations, but it serves me well when I am negotiating with people and I can say something that would not normally be said by someone when they are trying to get on someone’s good side. The only reason I don’t get in trouble when I negotiate with cheekiness is that my logical side backs me up, and I can present a firm foundation that is built of reckless bravery and strategy. My nerve also helps me when I am afraid of doing something or confronting someone because it allows me to get up the courage to speak out. That is definitely a skill I struggle with, but I think speaking out is one of the most important things I can do, so I thank my nerve for that.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria?

Elspeth: When I started at Villa I had only just turned three two weeks before, so naturally, I was a bit unfamiliar with normal society and etiquette, and that led to several amusing incidents. Amusing for me, at least. I don’t think my teachers appreciated my laughter very much, though I wasn’t the only rebellious student, and, believe me, I say rebellious in want of a better word. For example, my primary class used to have a sort of tradition unbeknownst to the teachers of climbing up on the tables and dancing on the few rare moments that our guides were not in the room. I didn’t take part in this because firstly, I’m not much of a dancer, and secondly, I didn’t want to damage any materials. My classmates were a bit more carefree, and though I thought it a bad idea, I didn’t interfere with their free will, cause that’s kind of against the law.

I have to admit, it was difficult trying to do my work when someone was dancing on my table, and I would take my work to the rug whenever the teachers left the room. On one such occasion when we were unoccupied for about ten seconds, a dance party occurred, and somehow, one of the kids managed to get another’s shoe and started tossing it. That annoyed me, so I told the kid to be slightly more reasonable and at least to toss their own shoe, so I brought their shoe to them. Not one of my smarter moves. It was at that moment that my teachers walked in, and I believe that what they saw was me giving another kid a shoe to toss. As I say, not a very clever decision on my part.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Elspeth: When I imagined my last month at Villa for the past nine years, I pictured me at school, working on the school concert perhaps, or the sixth year song. I thought I would sit in the common area with my friends and laugh while working on our graduation speeches. I thought I would present my speech to my family and any of the friends that wanted to come. I thought I would have Field Day, and Circus Night, and the book fair. You can probably imagine how I felt when I found out that I would not be going back as a student to the school that is my home. I would not read to my friends on a bench or work on my class constitution with students that would be there to enjoy it. I felt pretty bad when I realized that the rest of my time at Villa wouldn’t be at Villa, but on a screen. I would never get to use the Montessori materials again as a student, but maybe as an alumna. It wouldn’t be the same. I am still crushed that my last two months of learning as a Villa student were transitioned to distance learning, but it was to keep us safe, and I am thankful for that.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Elspeth: I think that what I miss most about the campus is the sense of energy that seems to radiate off of it. So many people keep it alive, and whenever I walked there I could almost feel the memories and the sort of essence of kids eager to learn and adults eager to teach. It’s a great environment for the people that use it, and I think the homeliness is very difficult to be apart from.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Elspeth: I am pretty nervous about what comes next because it is all still unknown. My family is being uprooted and we are moving to Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I’ll be going to Maryland Avenue Montessori School, and the last time I moved was when I was two, so it’ll be a pretty jarring experience. I’m not scared, but still nervous. I think it’s funny that people fear the unknown. All it holds is new adventures. I’m hoping that I’ll be accepted to a Montessori IB high school, though I worry about that because it is very selective. I suppose I won’t know if I’ll get in until I try!

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Elspeth: Going into a new school, there are definitely things to be excited about, and there are probably things that I should be worried about. I’m excited about the opportunity to make new friends and acquaintances and getting to learn more, but I’m a bit worried about whether or not school will be distanced. It’ll probably be harder for me to get to know people if I can’t even talk to them in person, and it’ll be next to impossible for me to get familiar with my new school if I don’t even go there, so there will be ups and downs. 

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Elspeth: I haven’t really thought about how I will celebrate my graduation this summer. I was under the impression that we will be having our graduation party in July, which I’m not even sure I will be able to attend, seeing as we might’ve moved by then. I suppose I might get my reward for doing nine years at Villa by getting to decorate my new room however I want it. That would be nice. I might just take an entire day this summer where I watch movies and have fun and eat a lot of unhealthy stuff... that sounds pretty much like your average “you did it!” party, so I could settle for it, but what I really want is to go to Villa and see my classroom. That would be a nice treat, though I’m not even sure I would be allowed to. I haven’t been in my classroom since March 13, so I would love to just sit in there and read for a little while, or something. Maybe take a walk around the campus with my friends. That would be my celebration of choice.

Elspeth is a great friend, sparkly, a wordsmith and always willing to lend a helping hand. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Thank you, Elspeth. We are so proud to be able to call you a Villa alum. You have brought poise, intelligence and fierce individuality to our community and we will miss you dearly. Good luck in Milwaukee and please come back to visit.

And now... Elspeth's graduation speech:

[video width="640" height="360" m4v="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Elspeth-Graduation-Speech-1.m4v"][/video]Photos courtesy of Elspeth's family and Melinda Smith.

VdM Class of 2020: Milo

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars, to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their pre-recorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distancing ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. Over the next few weeks we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Milo.

Milo is adventurous, incredible, very, very smart, always willing to help, and a great friend. There are so many things I will miss about him. When he's in the classroom, he will always be kind to everyone. He also supports people in every way. And he's an amazing person to be with. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Milo: Hello all! I'm Milo, and I have gone to Villa for 6 years.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Milo: My hobbies are probably playing video games, making YouTube videos, and jumping on the trampoline. I also went to the circus before the COVID-19.

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Milo: Oh, that's such a hard question! I'll have to say that I can't really choose for either question, because I have read so many good books thanks to the book club at Villa.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Milo: I would say that I am proud that I am a natural leader, although I don't like to say things like that.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria? Where did you go before VdM?

Milo: When I first started at Villa, I think I was about six years old. but before, I went to a school called Flynn Park Elementary.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Milo: To be honest, I don't really know. at first, I didn't really like it all that much, but It got easier as time went on.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Milo: I think that I will miss all of my friends, and the ability to build things, and to choose what you do.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Milo: I will be going to the school in my district, called Britney Woods.

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Milo: I guess that I'm excited to meet new people, but apparently it is going to be very loud at lunch, so... yeah.

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Milo: I don't really know! my family is still talking about it, but I know that I'm getting some kind of gift...

 

Milo, you are always willing to help, supportive, funny and a good friend. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Thank you, Milo! We will miss seeing you on campus every day but we know we haven't seen the last of you. You are bound for great things and we can't wait to see what your future holds.

And now... Milo's graduation speech:

[video width="1920" height="1080" mp4="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Milo-speech.mp4"][/video]Photos courtesy of Milo's family and Melinda Smith.

VdM Class of 2020: Rachel

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars, to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their pre-recorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distancing ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. Over the next few weeks we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll meet Rachel.

Rachel is a great role model and classmate to have in the classroom. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Rachel: Hi. My name is Rachel and I have just graduated from Villa di Maria Montessori.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Rachel: I like to go on hikes and walk my dog. But when I'm not outside or playing games, I read, read, read.

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Rachel: My favorite book series is Wings of Fire by Tui T. Sutherland. I can't even count how many times I've re-read the series and I highly suggest anyone interested in dragons, adventure, etc. to read the series themselves.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Rachel: I love that I have the talent to draw lovely animals. (I wish I could draw humans though. I'm still working on that.)

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria? Where did you go before VdM?

Rachel: When I first went to Villa, I was about five years old in Mrs. McCauley's classroom. One of my favorite memories of being in her class was on my birthday. I still remember the delighted faces of the children staring hungrily at my birthday rainbow cake.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Rachel: I would have loved, and preferred, to have ended the school year socially. But I'm happy that I at least get to say goodbye.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Rachel: I miss the trees and the artistic vibe that I got from the one-of-a-kind campus that I wouldn't find anywhere else.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Rachel: I am not yet aware of what's ahead of me for my next school, but it will be in Texas.

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Rachel: I'll be excited to meet new people and to discover new things.

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Rachel: By packing up my stuff, moving to Texas, getting a new house, and starting a new adventure in my next chapter of the story!

To Rachel: You're very well read, also resourceful and kind. We'll all miss you. Upper Elementary fourth-year student

Thank you, Rachel! We will miss you and your family, but we know you will have a great life and do amazing things in Texas.

And now... Rachel's graduation speech:

[video width="1280" height="720" m4v="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Rachel-Speech.m4v"][/video]Photos courtesy of Rachel's family and Melinda Smith.

VdM Class of 2020: Kemp

At the end of a typical school year, we honor and celebrate our sixth-year graduates and their families on campus with a graduation ceremony and after party—lovely speeches, delicious food, laughter, tears and lots and lots of Fitz's root beer. This year the pandemic forced us to change our plans and get creative. Graduating families came in their cars, to watch a parade put on by our community and a screening of their pre-recorded speeches, all the while maintaining a safe distance (and yes, there was root beer!).

While we did put on a pretty magnificent social-distancing ceremony (if we do say so ourselves), we think the graduates deserve to be celebrated just a little bit more. Over the next few weeks we'll highlight each of our sixth-year graduates on the blog. You'll meet some of the best people we know, children we love and have watched grow and develop into thoughtful, funny, curious, exciting and vibrant young people. And you'll get to watch their graduation speeches! Today, we'll kick off the series with Kemp.

Kemp is incredible, a huge cat lover, kind to everyone, supporting and very, very funny. He's always helping his friends out. I will miss him so much. He's a great person to have in the classroom. Upper Elementary fifth-year student

Villa di Maria: Introduce yourself! Tell us something you think everyone should know about you.

Kemp: Hello! I am Kemp. I have been playing piano ever since I was 4 and I have carried my piano-playing passion to 6th grade.

VdM: What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Kemp: My main hobbies are piano, sudoku and card games. One of my favorite card games is called The Game and Catan.

VdM: Do you have a favorite book or movie (or both)? What is it and why?

Kemp: My favorite movie is The Lego Batman Movie because it is both filled with humor and action. My favorite book is The Secret Garden because it is written in a great way and because of its story.

VdM: Tell us something about yourself that you are proud of.

Kemp: I am proud that I play many sports and that I am adventurous in eating and exploring the world around me.

VdM: How old were you when you started at Villa di Maria? Where did you go before VdM?

Kemp: Before Villa, I went to a school called Campbell Montessori. It closed down after my second grade and so we started Villa.

VdM: Let's talk about this school year... how do you feel about closing out your last year at Villa di Maria with distance learning?

Kemp: I think that it was interesting, and though I miss my friends, I know that I will see them again. I was not expecting this in my last year at Villa.

VdM: What do you miss most about being on campus?

Kemp: What I miss most about Villa is all of the fields and just all of it.

VdM: What's next for you? Where will you be going to middle school?

Kemp: My next school will be ATI, and I am looking forward to being able to travel to Villa from ATI and that ATI and Villa are linked.

VdM: What is something you're most excited about going into your new school? Is there anything you're not excited about?

Kemp: I am excited about my next year at ATI because of the freedom they allow the students. I am not excited about leaving Villa and the friends I made there.

To Kemp: You're a great leader, a great reader. You're very smart and you have a big heart. You never tell a lie and you're a very nice guy. Upper Elementary fourth-year student

VdM: Last but not least, you graduated from Villa di Maria!! How are you going to celebrate this summer?

Kemp: I am going to celebrate my summer by relaxing and playing outdoors. Getting back with friends and family, saying hello to my friends, and having fun.

Thank you, Kemp! We will miss you seeing you everyday next year. You bring joy and humor everywhere we go and we know that will take you far. Good luck and have fun!

And now... Kemp's graduation speech:

[video width="568" height="320" m4v="https://vdm.provelpizza.party/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Kemp-Speech.m4v"][/video]Photos courtesy of Kemp's family and Melinda Smith.