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Valentine's Day Celebrations

17622040_1589217331109518_2213007820360634344_oIt was a lovely day to celebrate Valentine's Day at Villa di Maria! There were more shades of pink than ever, and it was a bright and sunny day full of plenty of regular work in addition to a few parties! Below, some photos from around campus and inside classrooms. 17620434_1589219157776002_2851910206017898966_o17505134_1589219681109283_665712078592843271_o17632131_1589217381109513_7577781537962384964_o17492619_1589216587776259_823964772864939158_o17621784_1589217321109519_1277778523264769422_o17545305_1589219344442650_8583597513414579936_oLower elementary students decorated for an afternoon dance party while the primary students played on the playground (and fell asleep on car rides home) after having their own morning celebrations. The creativity of the Valentine boxes never ceases to amaze us!While one elementary classroom made their own sweet and heartfelt in-house Valentines, the other classroom played a very funny game of "Telephone."They also toasted to a Happy Valentine's Day with sparkling grape juice, apple juice, and water. The dance party was a blast, and as usual, the kids were still talking about their fun days well into the evening. What a special place to share the love with friends!Happy Valentine's Day!

Lower Elementary Cooking Program, Part I

img (11)Though they have missed having the Upper Elementary students on campus this school year, the Lower El decided that continuing some version of the cooking program should go on, and better late than never! The process, which involves planning, budgeting, shopping, and finally, cooking, it too much for one blog post. We will visit each of the elements in separate posts. Today, we will see the cooking aspect, which begins on Friday morning with the ingredients the children have purchased earlier in the week. First up on the menu: spaghetti and meatballs. We adults can tend to take for granted all that goes into preparing a meal: the manual dexterity it takes to open cans, for instance, or the skill of chopping onions. Observing these four children go through the process was a good reminder of the complexities involved in prepping a meal start to finish!Chopping onions, for instance, requires knife skills and strength, and a whole lot of persistence, especially when those strong onions begin to sting your eyes and make them water!Each child had the opportunity to attempt to open cans before allowing the expert of the group to take over. There was plenty of patience, guidance, and encouragement for those who struggled.And the onions...Oh, the onions!!!The children followed a recipe they had previously printed out, and checked back often to make sure they were following it closely.With guidance from Lower Elementary assistant Melinda, the children took turns with each step of the process to build their skills and understanding of the cooking process.And of course, the important last step before serving their delicious meal: cleaning up!They did an excellent job, and the entire Lower Elementary building was filled with wonderful smells of cooking sauce, spices, and onions. A large portion of the Lower Elementary classroom opted to pay for the meal from the money they have budgeted for the cooking program. Be sure to check back in for Part II!

Chinese New Year Celebration

img (12)It was a very exciting time in the Lower Elementary classrooms last Friday, which marked the beginning of the Chinese New Year: 2017, Year of the Rooster. Staff were able to keep much of the celebration a surprise to the children, making the party extra special.While the children enjoyed some (rather cold) outdoor time after lunch and recess, Directresses and Assistants worked hard to ready the classrooms with Chinese New Year decorations and Chinese culture items in general. Ms. Sophie did a wonderful job setting up a special surprise Kung Fu presentation by Mr. Qi Xing, who is from China and has practiced Kung Fu for over 30 years.The children were treated to the traditional Chinese New Year story of Nian; the highlight being Directress Anna Schwind reading a page in English, followed by Jie Zheng's reading in Mandarin. The children were absolutely captivated by the version in both languages!Soon after the reading, the surprise of the Kung Fu presentation was revealed. Clearly, these children were beyond excited!Mr. Qi Xing, who is a 32nd generation of disciples of Shaolin Temple in China, is particularly good at Shaolin boxing, Shaolin sword, and hard Qi Gong. He has earned many domestic and international Kung Fu Championships, and is now operating Qi Master at Kung Fu School in St. Louis. What an honor it was to see his presentation!When Mr. Xing asked for volunteers, the hands shot right up!After the presentation, Ms. Sophie discussed some traditions of the Chinese New Year before the children went on to do crafts having to do with the new year. Some favorites were coloring pages, paper fortune-tellers, and pop-up dragons. The staff really went all out with this one!The last part of the celebration was the food! Children enjoyed lotus candy, oranges, vegetarian spring rolls, dumplings, and fortune cookies.Happy Chinese New Year, the Year of the Rooster!

Collaboration, Communication

 img (13)There is so much going on in the way of collaboration in the Montessori classroom. To highlight how special and unique this is, picture your own childhood experience; was it one of strict eyes-on-your-own-work rhetoric, or were you encouraged to study, work, and complete tasks together?Too often, learning is misrepresented. While healthy competition is just that, being one's best self is not to the exclusion of others.How wonderful it is to see children working together, testing each other, building each other up rather than pushing one another aside. How special to witness a collaborative decision-making process, even when it doesn't go smoothly. How important to teach our children to work together, so that they may do so gracefully as adults.

Mentoring in the Elementary Classroom

img (14)Mentoring takes many forms in the Montessori classroom, and even across classroom boundaries. Here at Villa di Maria, mentoring takes place on both an unconscious level and under more formal circumstances. Rebecca Callander, Directress of VdM's Upper Elementary classroom, took the time to explain. The young lady in purple is one of the oldest students at VdM and came to mentor for an hour one morning in the Lower Elementary Checkerboard classroom. Below, the mentoring process, in Rebecca's words.There are levels of mentoring in the Montessori school. In Primary it's unconsciously done, with a great deal of care and love. In Elementary, the second plane child demonstrates a characteristic push toward morality and responsibility unique to their age grouping. In Lower El, the leaders relish an opportunity to work with younger children and to practice reading and helping their younger peers. They are beginning to consciously consider their role of leader and explore what it means to be helpful, but from a more removed standpoint. The oldest child in the school is fully conscious of the role of the mentor. This older child is beginning to identify with the adult more than other children and sees the opportunity as a chance to give back to offer their love and guidance to a school that has loved them and guided them so.How exciting it is then that 6th year Upper Elementary students are beginning the mentoring process in the Lower Elementary! Upper El mentors will model great work and support basic skills lessons with first or second years. Due to the unique situation of a satellite campus, this process requires a bit more logistical prep, but is certainly worth it. In fact, the very fact that more thought has had to go into the details has illuminated the many prominent benefits that mentoring work offers and has made me hyper-aware of how the older children process the experience.  For instance, I have had to discuss the transport plans with parents, alerting parents to the travels, which in turn has revealed just how excited the children are about the opportunity when their parents relay how thrilled the children are! It means something on a deep level to the them.For our first adventure, Bethany (shown in purple) and Kaylee (who was not available on this day) are helping in Megan's room. They arrive a little before school starts and begin the morning by checking in with Megan, then cleaning a shelf (to model conscientious care of environment for younger children), and then act as a support to whomever Megan feels could use a little more guided help, whether it be from a lesson on spelling rules, one-on-one reading, writing, sentence analysis, help with racks and tubes, or something else.I worked with the two girls, paging through my albums, reviewing early lessons with them, and gave them advice on how to present a lesson. They coached each other and discussed, on their own, phrases which imbued the most self-esteem and encouragement without overtaking the lesson or being condescending: "We can't do the work for the children; we need to allow them to do the work."  They also discussed follow-up reading questions. "We shouldn't ask them to just say the names of characters, but ask them what they thought about the character."  "And we shouldn't ask them to write anything down yet, not until they are really good at reading and writing separately."  Yup! Those girls!Also, they snickered, "We should probably review all the rules of spelling because I know I forget how to spell words too."  Nothing like being a leader to keep you honest and on your game.The sixth grade year is one of transition and culmination. Before the VdM student moves from child to adolescent, they go through an exhaustive self-study, perhaps not entirely consciously, but which begins to categorize and sort their accumulated knowledge of the many years they've spent in Montessori. Spending time with first years reminds them from whence they came and helps them to assess who they are becoming.When reviewing racks and tubes, the two girls were initially confronted: "But I don't know how to do this work!"  "I only know abstract long division."  Then a sort of unpacking of the material and process took place. They began to re-experience exchanging and recording with the material. One of the students took notes on the process to ensure she had the details down pat. It reminded me of my own elementary training experience! It was magical.Thank you, Rebecca, for sharing this piece of the Montessori world with us! It is truly a wonderful, meaningful process for all!

Construction Tour

img (34)Last week, despite very cold weather, both Lower Elementary and Upper Elementary classrooms were thrilled to bundle up and take a tour of the new Elementary Building. The building has been going up before their very eyes for months, but this was extra special; each child had the opportunity to set foot inside the structure for the first time to see how the building is progressing and to get a sense of its scale. Donning hard hats for safety, the children were taken through in groups to make the tours more manageable.Questions were asked and answered, such as "Will we get stuck in any of the concrete?" and "No, all the concrete has dried and hardened." First, the necessary details!Above, one of the workers showed the children where the fireplace will be -- somewhere around here, in the library. Being within the rooms was very special -- the building is so much larger once you step inside! Also, the windows really are huge!This worker also pointed out where the play yard will be. The children gathered around to peak out the window and imagine the space -- a practice that is getting easier and easier as the building comes along.Here is the west side of the building, and below, the north side.Thank you, BSI Constructors, for taking your time to show the children around, and for your patience and positivity while answering their questions!

December at Villa di Maria

 img (35)It's December at Villa di Maria, and judging from all the singing going on in the Primary and Elementary classrooms alike, the Winter Concert is going to be great!Yes, these flowers were still blooming in early December; can you believe it?!

Yes, these flowers were still blooming in mid-December; can you believe it?! 

There was still plenty of color in the gardens tucked in around campus at the beginning of December. Those flowers held out far longer than usual! It was such a special treat to see them still green and pink and purple before the frost came mid-month.As mother nature does her thing, the cold and frosty weather has arrived...We look forward to all of the fun holiday activities that will take place within the Villa classrooms — from celebrations to practice for the big performance, to pajama day and beyond! We hope you and your families are cozy and well!

Construction Progress

img (36)Progress on the construction of the new Lower Elementary building is coming along nicely! A little while back, the children of the Lower Elementary classes gathered with the construction workers and contractors to discuss what is in store. The new elementary building will include three classrooms, a kitchen and multipurpose room, a pool house with girls' and boys' locker rooms as well as an office, and a pavilion for community gatherings and Camp Pegnita.This is a sample of the siding for the new building. All of the materials chosen for the new building are environmentally friendly, in addition to maintaining some of the characteristics of the current structures and surrounding neighborhood.The children were very curious about the construction process itself. They asked questions about the large machinery, such as "the one with the big roller," which is used to flatten the concrete they have poured. In fact, they were quite curious about all things relating to the slab: the big pourer, the concrete finisher, and whether getting the concrete wet might ruin it (as there were some rainy days following the pouring of the concrete slab). They all agreed that they wanted the job of the guy who operated the ride-on trowel (shown below).Photo credit: Constructionequipment.com Photo credit: Constructionequipment.comEach worker talked about his or her job and what they liked best about their job. Questions ranged from what happens if someone forgets to put in a piece of wood, to what type of pencil was attached to one of the hard hats! Amazing the little details these curious learners pick up on!The construction of Phase I (which includes all of the structures mentioned above) is on target for being complete by May 31, 2017. This will complete on campus construction for awhile before Phase II begins - at least one year, more likely around three years - (Phase II will include an administrative building and a gym; Phase III will include four Primary classrooms), leaving a bit of time for everyone to settle in.The skeleton of the building is going up fast; since taking the above photo, the roof is now up! One of the most exciting aspects of this space is the grand size — not just of the building, but also of the huge windows which will allow plenty of natural light into the classrooms and new spaces! We cannot wait to see the finished product!Thank you, Melinda, for taking these beautiful pictures! 

The Flora in a Montessori Classroom

img (15)Look around a Montessori classroom, and you will find lots and lots of plants. Plants make up an important part of the indoor environment and not only provide an opportunity for children to care for their environment, but also provide a calm, relaxing atmosphere, clean and purify the air children breathe. Plants kept indoors even enhance productivity, according to Norwegian studies of worker productivity and the presence of plants kept in work spaces. Other studies, including one from the University of Michigan, show that simply being around plants improves memory, concentration, and productivity for children and adults alike. On top of it all, they are beautiful to behold, and enhance the appearance of a classroom.They also provide a little privacy! Here, a child reads to himself within the comfy shelter of some big green leaves.  They also provide a little privacy! Here, a child reads to himself within the comfy shelter of some big green leaves.Within the primary and elementary classrooms, there is also the important lesson of caring for the environment. Children are shown how to dust leaves, remove dead leaves, water, and otherwise care for the plants within their classroom. There is also the flower arranging lesson, to be covered in a future blog post. The flowers below were picked from one of Villa di Maria's own fall gardens.The thought and care that goes into each Montessori classroom continues to amaze and inspire. If you'd like to introduce some plants into your child's home environment, here is a list of easy-to-care for varieties:

  1. Succulents (a jade plant is a wonderful slow-growing plant that thrives in bright light with little water, and a snake plant, also in the succulent family, grows more quickly)
  2. Spider Plant (which does well in medium to bright light and likes to be kept moist)
  3. Rubber Plant (grows quickly and enjoys medium to bright light)
  4. Peace Lily (favors low light)
  5. Philodendron (there are many varieties, most prefer indirect light)
  6. Tradescantia (which has beautiful purple leaves - requires brighter light to maintain its color)
  7. Norfolk Island Pine (shown above, which has a lovely soft texture and can grow quite large - up to 10 feet tall indoors!)

Happy growing!

Happy Thanksgiving from Villa di Maria!

img (37)Yesterday, the entire Lower Elementary building was filled with the delicious smells of Thanksgiving foods — baked apples, all kinds of biscuits and breads, warm potatoes, peas with onions, and even turkey, ham, and gravy (warmed up, but still!). There is something so comforting about smelling good things baking. Add that to the happy, thankful community feeling in the classrooms, and it was quite a special day.   Ms. Sophie so patiently guided two children through the long process of making apple dumplings to share with one classroom, while the other classroom prepared a feast for their classmates. Four of the third-year students took it upon themselves to organize. They formed a committee, encouraged children to sign up and bring in different dishes, and executed the whole thing without a hitch. It was really impressive to watch them negotiate, work through so many different issues and steps along the way, and finally pull together the lunchtime feast.They moved tables around a bit before deciding on the best way to present the food.  They moved tables around a bit before deciding on the best way to present the food.Many children lingered as the food was slowly brought out — it all looked so tempting! Many children lingered as the food was slowly brought out — it all looked so tempting!While the four children were working to pull together the main event, Ms. Schwind played several rounds of "21 Questions" with the rest of the class. Their deductive reasoning skills are so impressive!In case you were wondering, the answer to the round above was the South Asian country of Bhutan, which Ms. Schwind pointed out is the happiest country in Asia, and one of the happiest countries in the world. And I believe the children guessed correctly, but it took them all 21 questions to get there!The children who put on this feast not only set it up and organized, but also served every one of their classmates before serving themselves. They thought of everything, even putting numbers on or near each food item recommending the quantity each person should take so there would be enough for everyone.And they had plenty! Below, some of the very full plates:There was plenty of ham... There was plenty of ham...We are so thankful for Villa di Maria! The people who make this place what it is, the hard work they put into each day, the patience, empathy, and love they show our children — it is all part of what makes this place so special. Our hearts are full. Happy Thanksgiving, both to and from Villa!

Third Years Visit Upper Elementary

img (16)Yesterday, the Third Year Lower Elementary students experienced quite a treat! They spent the afternoon with the Upper Elementary class eating lunch, playing outside for recess, and then enjoying a special presentation by Thomas and Tricia Jostlein, who demonstrated different horns, including the grand alphorn, to coincide with The Kirby installation on sound distortions. How lucky are we to have St. Louis Symphony members as a part of this amazing community?From left: conch, Tibetan trumpet, and bull hornThe children gathered outside in some pretty bright November sunshine to listen to the Jostleins talk about the history and use of each horn, followed by a demonstration of the sounds they produce. Also, a good sense of humor is always appreciated!Two students counted the protrusions on the conch shell to see if they corresponded with a Fibonacci sequence (they do correspond with the golden ratio) and also noted that the inner spiral of a conch is in fact included in the Fibonacci numbers found in nature (such as the bracts of a pinecone, the scales of a pineapple, and the leaf arrangement in plants); in this case, the spiral of the cochlea of the inner ear and the spiral of a conch are logarithmic spirals (having Golden proportions). Ah, mathematics is everywhere: in nature and in music!… And what a beautiful sound it makes!The grand finale was the assembly and discussion about the Alphorn, named from the region of the world from where it hails (the Alps). The children enjoyed the BIG sound, and noted that they could feel the vibrations from the Alphorns through the ground where they sat. It was a lovely show on a beautiful November afternoon. The whole afternoon was really special, and the Upper Elementary students have made a big impression on the Third Years!Thank you, Tricia and Thomas, for taking time out of your day to spend it with us!

Jobs in the Montessori Classroom

img (38)Practical Life Skills may begin in the Children's House with folding, sweeping up, washing dishes (and hands), and much more, but it does not end once the children move up to Lower Elementary. Instead, the older children take on more and more responsibility as they grow. Classroom jobs are an extension of their sense of community and ownership of their personal spaces; they help a child to appreciate the hard work that goes into keeping a space neat, clean, and ready for the next morning's eager young minds!Megan Eilers, Lower Elementary Directress, invites us into her classroom at the end of the school day to see what "jobs" time looks like. She has organized a chart for the children, and is experimenting with the best amount of time for them to really master their jobs: "We're thinking of moving to two-week periods for the children to have the same job. Otherwise, it seems at the end of the one-week time period, they have just learned to do the job well and have to go do a different one."And there are so many jobs to master! This classroom divides up the work into the following jobs: dusting and straightening all the shelves, sharpening pencils, washing dishes, caring for pets and plants, doing laundry, straightening cubbies, collecting trash and recycling, putting up chairs, vacuuming, lunch set-up, cleaning tables, chairs, and cubbies, and there's even a job inspector to keep everyone on task and up-to-date.The job inspector, hard at work The job inspector, hard at workDoing classroom jobs on a daily basis not only teaches responsibility for one's environment and community, it also teaches respect and appreciation for each other and the surroundings they need to be neat and clean. This is one skill that can carry over into the home life in a very helpful way… at least, we can hope!

Loose Parts Play: A Montessori Playground

DSC_0230There's a minimalist thing that has been going on in the open play spaces at Villa di Maria for years, and it's not from lack of resources. The logs, buckets, wood chips, stumps, chalk, sticks, stones, and naturally moveable pieces that litter the school grounds are not junk; rather, they are the evidence of the children's collective creativity. What architect Simon Nicholson proposed as "loose parts" in 1972, they are the materials that can be moved around, carried, redesigned, repurposed, and reimagined to become anything a child can imagine. Nicholson believed that the loose parts in our environment are what inspire and empower our creativity (read his original paper from 1972 here)The open-ended play that results from loose parts — the sticks and logs and things found in nature, provided by nature itself, allows for deep creative experimentation: the crucial element being the children's freedom to adapt the materials in a large variety of ways. These logs can become structures, machines, vehicles, absolutely anything a child (or group of children) decides.The power of loose parts lies in its infinite possibilities. It does not dictate a story or purpose; the child does so.If you are interested in creating more loose parts play for your child, consider the following in your back yard: stones of varying size, slices of wood rounds, sticks, pinecones, sand, wood chips, chalk, gravel, acorns, planks, tubes, and wheels.For indoors: popsicle sticks, dominos, wood blocks, felt balls, yarn, pipe cleaners, marbles, cardboard tubes, washers, buttons, shells, magnetic building tiles, strips of fabric (silk, wool, cotton), and even dried seeds or beans!Happy playing!

The Magic of Read Aloud

img (39)Reading out loud to children facilitates their readiness for formal reading, their concepts of printed words, and their phonemic awareness—all of which provide a strong foundation for literacy. But this cherished reading time is more than academic; it's absolutely magical. The guide starts by asking children to recap what had happened the previous day and many hands shoot up. They all contribute, some in greater detail than others, pieces of the story that make the whole. And that's the thing—this group dynamic is representative of the collaborative nature of the Montessori lower elementary classroom: all voices are heard, each child is valued, their voices are part of a bigger picture.Read aloud is fascinating to observe. A small room, absolutely packed with children, is completely and totally quiet. There is only the sound of paper being folded and the shifting of bodies. Each child understands and respects the expectations: they are to listen, whether their hands are busy finger-knitting, folding origami, or drawing or simply folded in their lap.When the guide reads a humorous or light passage, the children erupt into laughter. Then, like magic, it is quiet again.Being together in this small space, one cannot help but notice the sense of community. The older children help the younger ones, using hand signals instead of words—guiding them through a tricky fold in origami, offering a hand when a stitch is off, or sharing scissors and pencils. A treasured time of day, read aloud is a time to relax and refresh the mind before another work cycle.These well-loved books are on their way out — clearly, there's a whole lot of reading going on in here! 

Why Kids Need Recess

img (19)Recess. The word alone may bring back vivid childhood memories — the sounds of happy screeching, yelling, and laughter, the feeling of the breeze on your face as you ran as fast as your legs could carry you while your friends chased you, the experience of trying to catch your breath from a fit of giggles, even the bittersweet memories of trying to work out a problem or disagreement with a peer as you stood face-to-face in anger. Whatever your experiences were of recess, they were undoubtedly important to your social and emotional development.Recess, as it turns out, is about far more than exercise.Studies have shown time and time again how important play is to the developing human. It boosts healthy development of the physical, intellectual, social, and emotional realms of growth. What happens when children play? They learn to interact and solve interpersonal disagreements with each other in safe, often imaginative ways. They challenge their bodies; sensorimotor development is enhanced during physical, rough-and-tumble playground play.Science has also recently linked play to healthy cognitive growth and academic success. These links have been specific to writing, reading, abstract scientific and mathematical concepts, critical thinking, and creative problem-solving skills. Play helps children "reset" their brains for the rest of the day, leaving them ready to learn new things when they re-enter the classroom.What is happening here? Coordination with one's own body in addition to coordinating with others' bodies, balance, teamwork, joy, and relaxation all in one! What is happening here? Coordination with one's own body in addition to coordinating with others' bodies, balance, teamwork, joy, and relaxation all in one!Imagination, abstract thinking, and a self-imposed time-out: this child was upset and went to be by herself for a few moments. Her friend, standing, checked on her and took a position of protector. They ran off together minutes later.  Imagination, abstract thinking, and a self-imposed time-out: this child was upset and went to be by herself for a few moments. Her friend, standing, checked on her and took a position of protector. They ran off together minutes later. Pure joy! Pure joy!Simply observing children at recess is enough to see the evidence of this complex and important part of a child's day. What an honor to be a fly on the wall! Let those kids play!

October at Villa di Maria

img (33)Fall is in full swing at Villa di Maria! With construction well under way on the north side of the school grounds, the children have adjusted well to new play and socializing spaces. Staff and students have worked to celebrate all things fall, including well-placed colorful mums and pumpkins to spooky spider webs made from string and even a few surprise spiders here and there!  It's such a fun time of year! Here's what we've been up to.With plenty of fun events on the horizon, excitement is in the air. Halloween is just around the corner. We can't wait to share some pretty great costumes with you when the time is right!

The Role of the Contrarian in the Lower Elementary Classroom

img (32)The contrarian is best defined as a person who opposes or rejects popular opinion, someone who challenges or goes against the usual. For parents, it is the child who questions or challenges everything: from the rules of the household to the clothing the parent deems appropriate for weather or special occasion. It is the child who disagrees with much of what is presented to him; he must find out for himself a thing to be true rather than being told and simply believing.At first glance, a child who proves to be contrary can be a real challenge; he or she shakes up group dynamics and can slow down decision-making processes or even rattle and frustrate other children. However, in the Montessori classroom, particularly within the age group of the Lower Elementary classroom where the social piece is so important, a contrarian can be the source of growth for all. With gentle and thoughtful directing from the adults in the classroom, handling the situations that come up with a contrarian in the group can actually be a benefit to the others. Below, Anna Schwind, one of the Lower Elementary Directresses at Villa di Maria, shares the importance of the contrarian in such a setting. In her words:It is so very important to have a contrarian in the classroom. Elementary children can be like lemmings. If you know the concept of the threshold model of collective behavior, then you will understand that the threshold for elementary children is ridiculously low. This is why they can all so easily agree to pull in the same direction. They joyfully and enthusiastically band together for a cause, and much of my job is making sure those causes are for a greater good rather than to devastating effect; they don't have all their long-term thinking in place yet. It is in their nature to want to do a thing, together, where everyone participates, and it doesn't much matter to them what the thing is.This quality of elementary children — the drive to work together — is a fantastic and powerful quality, and one of the things I enjoy about spending time with them, but it has a dark side. It easily leads to the tyranny of the majority. It easily goes to a place of ostracizing whomever doesn't go along.In every elementary class I have ever led, I have needed a contrarian: someone who won't just go along because that's what is being done by the group. Without a person of that character, the class culture quickly becomes a place of enforced unanimity. In addition to developing as social creatures and collaborative actors, elementary children are also still developing themselves as individuals, and they need opportunities to stand out, to stand apart and to be distinct from the herd, even if most of the time they are happy to go along.Some children, who aren't by nature contrarian, will not develop the ability to mark themselves out or to oppose when it's important to them without the example of a peer who does so consistently. When someone says "no" to the general chorus of "yes," it also provides ample opportunities for respecting the minority, encouraging diversity, and practicing empathy. These are critical opportunities.All of the children have a part to play and a story to make of themselves in each class. But some roles are hard to fill and take a rarer set of qualities. Sometimes, in some classes, they remain unfilled because no one is up to it, and the classroom experience as a whole is less rich and a little less complete. The contrarians, as I think of them, are scarce. Their special gifts have often been thought of and treated by the culture at large as burdens instead of opportunities — even when they are yet children! — so I prize those ones especially.Thank you for [your contrarians].And thank you, Anna, for never failing at the magical ability to see the good in every child. Your perspective and words are truly inspiring!

Lower Elementary Play Date

img (40)The first play dates of the school year have been great successes! From playgrounds to picnics to get-togethers out in nature, the Villa di Maria kids have been enjoying each other's company outside of their school environments. Here, photos from Mrs. Schwind's Lower Elementary class play date at Shaw Nature Reserve this past Saturday afternoon. The weather was perfect, the company even better!The younger (and older) siblings of the Lower Elementary kids had just as much fun as their brothers and sisters! It is a joy to see these budding friendships and to observe the older students taking care of and including their friends' little brothers and sisters. It really does take a village, and that village is made of all different age groups!Outdoor natural climbing structures allow for this age group to test and challenge their bodies, and to create elaborate pretend games that often focus on group and social dynamics. This group quickly formed small packs and ran through the nature's classroom space and the surrounding woods together.A few of the older siblings brought nets and containers and successfully caught fish from the large pond. "There used to be two fish in this container, but the big fish must have been hungry…"Let's hope for more of this glorious weather!