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Primary: The First 30 Minutes

img (45)When a parent or caregiver drops off the Montessori child in the morning (for Villa children, this time happens between 8:10am and 8:30am), a very special routine unfolds. The classroom lies patiently, quiet and ready for the day's work. Materials are organized and remain in their designated spots; flowers are set and ready for arranging; soft lighting and a calm environment welcome each child as he or she arrives.In P3, Directress Heather Steinman waits patiently by the door as the children arrive for the day. She welcomed us in to observe the morning routine and how important those first 30 minutes are to a Primary Montessori child. This calm time is important for each child to experience. As she arrives, she puts her things away neatly to start the day. It is each child's responsibility to hang up her own coat, hat, and gloves; it is part of her routine to change her shoes from outdoor shoes into her clean indoor ones. She zips up her coat on a hanger and then hangs it alongside the others.As each child arrives within the designated time window, the Directress is available to greet him or her. This is such an important part of the day — a time for a child to feel special, and even to reaffirm the child's place in the classroom and his relationship with the Directress as she shakes his hand, looks him in the eye, and welcomes him by name and with a verbal greeting.When the children arrive all around the same time, they are also treated to each other! While in the coat room together, they chat and catch up on socializing time. Checking in with each other is another way these children solidify their relationships with each other and build self esteem before going to choose work in the classroom. Just as adults often take time to greet one another and socialize a bit as they arrive at work in the morning, the children also need this time. They tell stories or share news of their families. Sometimes they tell silly jokes and make each other laugh. It is a relaxing, enjoyable way to start the day!Within the first 30 minutes of a Montessori Primary child's day, she or he may choose to set up a snack for the rest of the class. Here, a child pours pretzels into a bowl while another washes grapes.Then, they work together to take the washed grapes off the vine to make snack time easier for their friends.It takes some children longer than others to hang up their coats and hats, to change their shoes, and to place their lunch boxes on the shelf. Sometimes this can take up most of the first 30 minutes!As 8:30 rolls around, the classroom becomes abuzz with action. Children get settled and begin their work while the Directress gives lessons and the Aide helps others. There is a bit more noise now, and everyone is focused on the work they have chosen. The dynamic of the classroom slowly shifts; the lights are turned out in the coat room, there is less socializing and more concentration. By 8:35, children are hard at work.Thank you, Heather, for giving us a peek into the very important, very early part of the day. It is a pleasure to see these little minds blooming and thriving!

Practical Life: Folding

img (46)First thing every morning, an observer in the Montessori Primary classroom will most likely observe a young child diligently folding the clean laundry from the previous day's washing. Here, Jessie Braud, Directress in the Primary Two Classroom, invites us into her beautiful classroom, where a child concentrates on her work from the beginning sequence through to the end. The children absolutely love folding and putting away the Children's House laundry. Every day, someone (and sometimes more than one child) takes it upon himself to fold all of the drying cloths, cloth place mats, and cloth napkins which are used throughout the day each and every day. They take such pride in completing the task, which includes many steps.Robyn Milos, former Children's House Directress and current Education Director at Villa di Maria, shares with us another similar process:"Other classroom cloths, such as polishing cloths and dusting cloths, go through our laundry cycle in another wonderful manner. They are used to polish or dust, then are placed in the basket for cloth washing. When another child chooses cloth washing, the cloths are lathered up on the scrub board and hung to line dry. The next day, those cloths are ironed by yet another child and returned to their place on the supply shelf. The care of the environment that is bestowed on the Children's House, by the children, gives them such a sense of ownership!"Each cloth is color-coordinated, making it easy for a child to remember where each cloth goes. Above, a child gives cloths to Cristina, the Children's House Assistant, to place high on a shelf where they belong. The remaining cloths are all within the child's reach, such as on low shelves or in baskets along the floor."He does it with his hands, by experience, first in play and then through work. The hands are the instruments of man's intelligence."   - The Absorbent Mind, p. 25Thank you, Jessie, for this peek into the early morning workings of a Primary Classroom!

Loose Parts Play: A Montessori Playground

DSC_0230There's a minimalist thing that has been going on in the open play spaces at Villa di Maria for years, and it's not from lack of resources. The logs, buckets, wood chips, stumps, chalk, sticks, stones, and naturally moveable pieces that litter the school grounds are not junk; rather, they are the evidence of the children's collective creativity. What architect Simon Nicholson proposed as "loose parts" in 1972, they are the materials that can be moved around, carried, redesigned, repurposed, and reimagined to become anything a child can imagine. Nicholson believed that the loose parts in our environment are what inspire and empower our creativity (read his original paper from 1972 here)The open-ended play that results from loose parts — the sticks and logs and things found in nature, provided by nature itself, allows for deep creative experimentation: the crucial element being the children's freedom to adapt the materials in a large variety of ways. These logs can become structures, machines, vehicles, absolutely anything a child (or group of children) decides.The power of loose parts lies in its infinite possibilities. It does not dictate a story or purpose; the child does so.If you are interested in creating more loose parts play for your child, consider the following in your back yard: stones of varying size, slices of wood rounds, sticks, pinecones, sand, wood chips, chalk, gravel, acorns, planks, tubes, and wheels.For indoors: popsicle sticks, dominos, wood blocks, felt balls, yarn, pipe cleaners, marbles, cardboard tubes, washers, buttons, shells, magnetic building tiles, strips of fabric (silk, wool, cotton), and even dried seeds or beans!Happy playing!

In the Kitchen with Children

imgWith Thanksgiving fast approaching, many of us will be spending more time in the kitchen than usual. And what better excuse than that to include our children alongside us while we prepare the delicious food we will serve to our family and guests!Today, Sophie Andre, a wonderful Lower Elementary Aide (who also teaches French to the Lower Elementary students here at Villa di Maria) who hails from one of the culinary epicenters of the world, France, has offered her tips and tricks (and even a simple recipe) for working in the kitchen with children. Sophie is full of ideas for little hands eager to help in the kitchen, especially because she has been including her young daughter Lynne, in all of the fun. First, some tips:Do not expect your child to finish every step. Most of the time, Lynne starts the task, and I finish it (with her or by myself). I try to set up the environment as logically as possible: moving from left to right, providing different containers for prepped ingredients versus trash.When working with garlic, cut one end off the clove so that little fingers can more easily peel the skin.My daughter loves to use the Hachoir, the curved blade with handles on top shown in the top photo (also called a Mezzaluna). She feels so proud, and there's no stress on the parenting side, as the child needs to keep both hands on the handle in order to use it. That way, no fingers should be on the cutting board while the tool is in use (of course, keep an eye on him or her anyway).To mix ingredients, I put the pan on the table and my daughter pours everything into it. I pour olive oil into a small pitcher so she can pour it more easily and to avoid accidents. Usually, I cook the dish, but sometimes, Lynne helps stir while on her stool.Below, Sophie's beautiful pictures of Lynne in the kitchen (and a recipe!):Pouring, mixing (with her hands, with a whisk, and with a spoon or rubber scraper) Pouring, mixing (with her hands, with a whisk, and with a spoon or rubber scraper) Peeling using fingers (egg, garlic, mandarin orange) or using a peeler Peeling using fingers (egg, garlic, mandarin orange) or using a peeler Cutting and chopping (*make sure your child is using knives and other sharp tools properly, putting her hand in the right place. Remind her again and again that no fingers should be on the cutting board) Cutting and chopping (*make sure your child is using knives and other sharp tools properly, putting her hand in the right place. Remind her again and again that no fingers should be on the cutting board) Grating, kneeding, scooping, egg cracking (be sure to have a full carton of eggs to sacrifice the first day your child tries this… and plan to have a crunchy omelet to eat that day!), spreading, and shelling peas Grating, kneeding, scooping, egg cracking (be sure to have a full carton of eggs to sacrifice the first day your child tries this… and plan to have a crunchy omelet to eat that day!), spreading, and shelling peas Washing vegetables, washing dishes, washing table Washing vegetables, washing dishes, washing table And, the best part: using the senses in the kitchen: tasting, touching, and smelling! And, the best part: using the senses in the kitchen: tasting, touching, and smelling!Now for the recipe! Sophie has shared a typical easy French recipe: Carottes Vichy (Vichy Carrots). This recipe uses many skills: peeling with fingers and with a peeler, washing, cutting leaves, chopping, cutting, pouring, and mixing.Vichy CarrotsNo specific proportions here, just prepare according to your own taste: parsley, garlic, carrots, salt, ground pepper, and olive oil.First, make a "persillade," (chop together parsley and garlic). Next, cut carrots into rounds. Mix everything, then sauté in a pan with olive oil, salt, and pepper.Et voila! Bon appetit!Thank you, Sophie, for inspiring us all to include our children in the kitchen — such a wonderful thing to do together as a family! 

Lunchtime in the Children's House

img (47)Lunchtime is kind of a big deal in the Primary Montessori classroom. There is so much to do to prepare, and eager small hands delight in the work it takes to set the tables, pour the water, and set out the lunch boxes before all of their classmates can sit down to enjoy their meals. The directress and assistant set out name tags in advance, changing up who sits with whom each day. Once the name tags are place on each table, a child walks around, reading the names and placing woven place mats at each spot.This child took great care in placing the mats just so! This child took great care in placing the mats just so!While the children who volunteered earlier in the day set up the classroom for lunch, the Directress gathers with the rest of the children on the rug to sing songs. The children walking around the room setting up also sing while they work. Such a harmonious setting!After the mats are placed, the plates and glasses come next.Next, two children work together, one placing cloth napkins at each setting, while the other is in charge of forks and spoons.Silverware is heavy!  Silverware is heavy!Perhaps one of the most fun parts of setting up lunch is one of the youngest children in the class taking responsibility for pouring water into each glass. He was so careful, so methodical, and took so much pride in this activity, which, as he grows older, will become more about contributing to the community around him. Each child will drink from the water he poured so carefully. How important he must feel!Once the tables are set, the directress invites everyone to sit. The children wait until everyone is seated. The directress rings a bell once, and they all begin to unpack their lunches and socialize with their friends.Children serve themselves or can ask for help opening or heating up food. They do as much of it themselves as they can manage, and take pride in this work.This part of the day is so special, it is wonderful to witness. It feels like a big family gathering!Thank you, Reghan, for inviting us into your classroom for lunch! 

Why Kids Need Recess

img (19)Recess. The word alone may bring back vivid childhood memories — the sounds of happy screeching, yelling, and laughter, the feeling of the breeze on your face as you ran as fast as your legs could carry you while your friends chased you, the experience of trying to catch your breath from a fit of giggles, even the bittersweet memories of trying to work out a problem or disagreement with a peer as you stood face-to-face in anger. Whatever your experiences were of recess, they were undoubtedly important to your social and emotional development.Recess, as it turns out, is about far more than exercise.Studies have shown time and time again how important play is to the developing human. It boosts healthy development of the physical, intellectual, social, and emotional realms of growth. What happens when children play? They learn to interact and solve interpersonal disagreements with each other in safe, often imaginative ways. They challenge their bodies; sensorimotor development is enhanced during physical, rough-and-tumble playground play.Science has also recently linked play to healthy cognitive growth and academic success. These links have been specific to writing, reading, abstract scientific and mathematical concepts, critical thinking, and creative problem-solving skills. Play helps children "reset" their brains for the rest of the day, leaving them ready to learn new things when they re-enter the classroom.What is happening here? Coordination with one's own body in addition to coordinating with others' bodies, balance, teamwork, joy, and relaxation all in one! What is happening here? Coordination with one's own body in addition to coordinating with others' bodies, balance, teamwork, joy, and relaxation all in one!Imagination, abstract thinking, and a self-imposed time-out: this child was upset and went to be by herself for a few moments. Her friend, standing, checked on her and took a position of protector. They ran off together minutes later.  Imagination, abstract thinking, and a self-imposed time-out: this child was upset and went to be by herself for a few moments. Her friend, standing, checked on her and took a position of protector. They ran off together minutes later. Pure joy! Pure joy!Simply observing children at recess is enough to see the evidence of this complex and important part of a child's day. What an honor to be a fly on the wall! Let those kids play!

Sound Game

img (48)There are many games a directress may play with the children in a primary classroom that are meant to awaken a child's ability to discern sounds within a word. The sound game shown here is intended to isolate the beginning sound of each word. Within the box are three items: a button, a cup, and a duck. Here, directress Reghan McAuley plays an "I Spy" riddle with these young children:I spy with my little eye… something that begins with I spy with my little eye… something that begins with "KUH." The child responds by picking up the cup and saying, "Kuh, kuh. Cup!" as she hands over the cup.In Reghan's words: "The attractiveness of the small objects and the rhyming riddle makes this a treasured game in the Montessori environment."Judging from the number of children who gathered round to watch in the background as the game progressed, it clearly is an appealing game, and a fun early introduction to the sounds words make. Thank you, Reghan, for sharing!

October at Villa di Maria

img (33)Fall is in full swing at Villa di Maria! With construction well under way on the north side of the school grounds, the children have adjusted well to new play and socializing spaces. Staff and students have worked to celebrate all things fall, including well-placed colorful mums and pumpkins to spooky spider webs made from string and even a few surprise spiders here and there!  It's such a fun time of year! Here's what we've been up to.With plenty of fun events on the horizon, excitement is in the air. Halloween is just around the corner. We can't wait to share some pretty great costumes with you when the time is right!

To the Symphony!

img (49)Yesterday, the primary extended day children took a (very fancy) trip to see the St. Louis Symphony perform! The excitement was palpable, especially for the newest members of the extended day program, for whom the trip was a first! Another first: the school bus ride, which was the highlight of more than one child's day. How lucky are these kids to have the wonderful city of St. Louis and its talented musicians at their fingertips?  Hooray for the symphony!

Bird Watching in Primary

img (50)In Villa di Maria's Primary classrooms, the outdoor prepared environment is often the first place children head as they arrive in the morning. The outdoor prepared environment is available and accessible throughout the morning work cycle. Children are free to move outdoors, as the door is open to an outdoor patio with easels, tables, gardening tools, aprons, brushes and brooms, and other materials. There are several areas in the outdoor environment that are so appealing to little ones. One of these areas is bird-watching. The bird watching area is situated in a quiet corner of the patio and includes a chair facing out toward the wooded area of Villa's school grounds, a table with binoculars, and several bird guide books. The laminated booklet of Backyard Birds of North America contains clear photographs of many different birds and is easy for small hands to hold and turn pages.Bird watching in Montessori  is a good example of the importance of identifying everything a child encounters in the world by its true name; a red bird may be a cardinal, a black bird may be a common raven or an American crow, a blue bird may be a blue jay, a scrub jay, or an eastern bluebird. During the sensitive period of language which occurs during the first six years of a child's life, identifying a thing by its proper name is extremely important to language development."The beginning of wisdom is to call things by their proper names."           — Confucius 

Working the Bi-s and Tri-s

The Montessori students begin working their "bi-s and tri-s" in the Children's House and continue into the Upper Elementary.  Yet another example of the genius of Maria Montessori!

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Why Write?

“My overarching research focuses on how learning and interacting with the world with our hands has a really significant effect on our cognition,” Dr. James said, “on how writing by hand changes brain function and can change brain development.”

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Time for a Spot of Tea?

The students in Mrs. McAuley's Primary classroom regularly make daily rounds to each classroom, kindly offering freshly brewed tea (honey optional!) to the other staff members as a grace-and-courtesy experience.

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