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Villa di Maria Night at the Magic House

img (52)This past Tuesday night marked Villa di Maria's Annual Magic House Night! It's an event all the children look forward to; in the middle of the winter when there is a bit of cabin fever going around, what can be more fun than having the run of the Magic House with all of your closest friends? Below, some pictures from the night, though many children were just a blur running by and were absolutely not able to be contained in a photo!  Part of the fun of this night is being able to see the younger siblings of the VdM students. Here, two future VdM'ers!Also touching: the quick and easy way the older students include and help the younger ones. It really does come naturally!The event, which was two hours long, was supplemented with snacks and water in the main conference room, thanks to parent volunteers. The evening was a huge success, and flew by!Thank you, Magic House, for having us! We had a blast!

Who We Are: Colleen Deibel

img (53)As part of a series we're calling Who We Are, we're working to build and connect our community by interviewing the talented, dynamic parents and staff who make up the people of Villa di Maria. Today, we meet Colleen Deibel, mother of three adorable little girls in Primary. Colleen is ever-smiling, has an easy laugh, and is an active member in the Villa di Maria community. Thank you, Colleen, for taking the time to share your thoughts and experiences in the Montessori world!Villa di Maria: What do you do (for a living, and also hobbies)?Colleen Deibel: I teach 7th grade science at Ladue Middle School. My area of expertise is in Life Science, but I also have a background in Horticulture. Gardening has always been a hobby; I used to do a pretty extensive vegetable garden, but with my three babies, I haven't been able to as much in the last three years. But this year I'm hoping we can do more.I also love to run.VdM: How did you get involved in Montessori?CD: I have a good friend how actually used to work here in the early 90's, a friend who went and started a Montessori school in Colorado, and two other friends were teachers. We also have tons of family involved in Montessori. But what got me here to Villa was when I was pregnant with my oldest. My cousin sent her children here, and encouraged me to check it out. I came and observed and just fell in love with it. It's just magical.VdM: What appeals most to you about Montessori?CD: I love that it's so layered. It's so respectful of who the children are. It doesn't put a limit on where they can go; it's so wide open. The way the materials flow, the way the classrooms are set up, and the way the Directress supports them, it's just beautiful.I teach in a traditional model, and I really believe that every child should have Montessori as their foundation. I think the possibilities for children, the potential, is so great. I get a chill just thinking about it. I think until you see it, you just can't imagine it.VdM: Can you share any instances where you've experienced "Montessori Moments" with your girls outside of school?CD: It's hard to say, because they've always done Montessori. But one thing I think Montessori is so good at is developing a child's natural curiosity and inquisitiveness and how receptive they are to knowledge. It's such an active type of learning, it's not passive in any way. For younger children, it's much more appropriate to be active within a structured environment.I think the wisdom of Montessori is starting to catch up and becoming more mainstream. Even traditional schools are moving towards this; the factory-model does not work anymore, it's not very responsive. I think science in particular is the type of thing that needs that hands-on, get-in-there type of learning. I love it here.VdM: What advice would you give a parent who is interested in Montessori?CD: I always tell people to just go observe. I send them the link, and tell them they have to see it themselves. I think spreading the information word of mouth is the best way to encourage others to explore Montessori.Thanks again, Colleen, for taking time out of your busy day to share your thoughts with us. You and your family bring so much joy to our community! 

Lower Elementary Cooking Program, Part I

img (11)Though they have missed having the Upper Elementary students on campus this school year, the Lower El decided that continuing some version of the cooking program should go on, and better late than never! The process, which involves planning, budgeting, shopping, and finally, cooking, it too much for one blog post. We will visit each of the elements in separate posts. Today, we will see the cooking aspect, which begins on Friday morning with the ingredients the children have purchased earlier in the week. First up on the menu: spaghetti and meatballs. We adults can tend to take for granted all that goes into preparing a meal: the manual dexterity it takes to open cans, for instance, or the skill of chopping onions. Observing these four children go through the process was a good reminder of the complexities involved in prepping a meal start to finish!Chopping onions, for instance, requires knife skills and strength, and a whole lot of persistence, especially when those strong onions begin to sting your eyes and make them water!Each child had the opportunity to attempt to open cans before allowing the expert of the group to take over. There was plenty of patience, guidance, and encouragement for those who struggled.And the onions...Oh, the onions!!!The children followed a recipe they had previously printed out, and checked back often to make sure they were following it closely.With guidance from Lower Elementary assistant Melinda, the children took turns with each step of the process to build their skills and understanding of the cooking process.And of course, the important last step before serving their delicious meal: cleaning up!They did an excellent job, and the entire Lower Elementary building was filled with wonderful smells of cooking sauce, spices, and onions. A large portion of the Lower Elementary classroom opted to pay for the meal from the money they have budgeted for the cooking program. Be sure to check back in for Part II!

Chinese New Year Celebration

img (12)It was a very exciting time in the Lower Elementary classrooms last Friday, which marked the beginning of the Chinese New Year: 2017, Year of the Rooster. Staff were able to keep much of the celebration a surprise to the children, making the party extra special.While the children enjoyed some (rather cold) outdoor time after lunch and recess, Directresses and Assistants worked hard to ready the classrooms with Chinese New Year decorations and Chinese culture items in general. Ms. Sophie did a wonderful job setting up a special surprise Kung Fu presentation by Mr. Qi Xing, who is from China and has practiced Kung Fu for over 30 years.The children were treated to the traditional Chinese New Year story of Nian; the highlight being Directress Anna Schwind reading a page in English, followed by Jie Zheng's reading in Mandarin. The children were absolutely captivated by the version in both languages!Soon after the reading, the surprise of the Kung Fu presentation was revealed. Clearly, these children were beyond excited!Mr. Qi Xing, who is a 32nd generation of disciples of Shaolin Temple in China, is particularly good at Shaolin boxing, Shaolin sword, and hard Qi Gong. He has earned many domestic and international Kung Fu Championships, and is now operating Qi Master at Kung Fu School in St. Louis. What an honor it was to see his presentation!When Mr. Xing asked for volunteers, the hands shot right up!After the presentation, Ms. Sophie discussed some traditions of the Chinese New Year before the children went on to do crafts having to do with the new year. Some favorites were coloring pages, paper fortune-tellers, and pop-up dragons. The staff really went all out with this one!The last part of the celebration was the food! Children enjoyed lotus candy, oranges, vegetarian spring rolls, dumplings, and fortune cookies.Happy Chinese New Year, the Year of the Rooster!

Collaboration, Communication

 img (13)There is so much going on in the way of collaboration in the Montessori classroom. To highlight how special and unique this is, picture your own childhood experience; was it one of strict eyes-on-your-own-work rhetoric, or were you encouraged to study, work, and complete tasks together?Too often, learning is misrepresented. While healthy competition is just that, being one's best self is not to the exclusion of others.How wonderful it is to see children working together, testing each other, building each other up rather than pushing one another aside. How special to witness a collaborative decision-making process, even when it doesn't go smoothly. How important to teach our children to work together, so that they may do so gracefully as adults.

Practical Life: Buckle Frame

img (6)In any Montessori Primary classroom here at Villa di Maria, you will find a sturdy, handsome buckle frame. Part of the Practical Life curriculum, the buckle frame encourages independent dressing by mimicking the sequence and dexterity needed to buckle and unbuckle a belt or even a backpack strap. The coordination of movement that comes from buckling, then unbuckling all of the straps on the buckle frame is quite satisfying for little hands.The activities related to care of self, such as those having to do with dressing frames, buttoning, lacing, tying bows, hand-washing, and shoe-polishing help the child to become independent, self-reliant, and self-assured. These activities also increase control of movement, attention span, and concentration.Important to note is that each step is done in a sequence with each buckle as opposed to completing all steps with each buckle. For instance, the child will pull the strap from under the ring for each separate strap from top to bottom (as seen in the first photo) as opposed to completing the whole task with each strap separately, thus reinforcing each step and its repetitive movement as a part of the whole. "It may be said that we acquire knowledge by using our minds; but the child absorbs knowledge directly into his psychic life. . . . Impressions do not merely enter his mind; they form it. They incarnate themselves in him. . . . We have named this type of mentality, The Absorbent Mind."—Maria Montessori, The Absorbent Mind

Camp Pegnita Celebrates 70 Years!

img (54)As Villa di Maria celebrates its 50th anniversary, it's worth noting that Camp Pegnita, a key piece to our community and funding, is celebrating 70 years of old fashioned summer camp fun! What the community often calls "old school camp," Pegnita has provided generations of St. Louis families with good old-fashioned outdoor time during a time when child development and health experts are recommending less and less screen time for children. Children who attend Camp Pegnita are treated to archery, swimming in the on-site pool, hikes through the creek, traditional camp games and sports, and just as important, plenty of free play with their friends, all on a beautiful 6 acres of quiet, green land in the heart of residential Kirkwood.  Megan Eilers, current Camp Pegnita Director and former camper, then camp counselor, took time to discuss a bit of the history of this special place. It is also worth noting that Megan has taken care of the binder full of Camp Pegnita paraphernalia with serious dedication; she has kept the pictures, brochures, and other artifacts in pristine condition, which is no easy feat, as some of them are from 1947! Below, Megan describes what she finds so special about Camp Pegnita."We had so many opportunities for free play. As campers, we would choose a place, then create our own games without anyone directing us. That was really special to us, and that is another tradition that continues today."Late 1940's Tug of war at Camp Pegnita Late 1940's Tug of war at Camp PegnitaCamp Pegnita has changed very little since the beginning, when Peggy Strauss purchased the property with her husband Milton. The original swimming pool, which was shaped like a whale, was removed seven years ago, and a new pool was built in a more favorable location, but aside from that, the grounds in 1947 were very similar to how they appear today.Here is the original pamphlet for Camp Pegnita from 1947! Note the tuition: $15 per week! Horseback lessons were the fair fine price of $1.25!  Here is the original pamphlet for Camp Pegnita from 1947! Note the tuition: $15 per week! Horseback lessons were the fair fine price of $1.25! The original camp wagon, the wheels of which were hung in the pavilion as chandeliers. They will now be repurposed into tables for the elementary outdoor spaces.  The original camp wagon, the wheels of which were hung in the pavilion as chandeliers. They will now be repurposed into tables for the elementary outdoor spaces. The The "Nature Hut," where Megan remembers discovering some interesting specimens... and you may recognize that totem pole on the left!More importantly, many of the camp traditions have remained. "What I love about this camp is that it wasn't, and isn't, a camp for just one kind of activity. As a child, archery was the biggest draw for me. I would strive every summer to get the 'Golden Arrow' award, which remains a camp tradition," shares Megan.Nowadays, children are offered Red Cross certified swim lessons and an on-duty lifeguard supervises swim time. Young children often solidify their underwater skills here, in addition to playing all sorts of water games with their friends!Originally, Camp Pegnita was an overnight camp (at least on the weekends). Now, children can sign up for a week at a time, or attend all summer long during the daytime hours. Each week, a specially scheduled event such as a luau, magic show, mad science demonstration, or camp-wide field day takes center stage. And though the particular themes have changed, the tradition of weekly themes remains an original feature since 1947!Though it feels like summertime is ages away, the sign-up for Camp Pegnita and Montessori Mornings is fast approaching. For the general public, it is February 1st, and it fills up fast! For Villa di Maria students, priority enrollment for Camp Pegnita and Montessori Mornings opened last week. If you have not received an email about this, please contact Hilary!Thank you, Megan, for sharing some history of Camp Pegnita. There will be plenty more reminiscing in the Winter Newsletter... so stay tuned!

The Innovators

img (55)A passage in the book The Innovators, by Walter Isaacson, highlighted the Montessori experience of Google co-founders Sergey Brin and Larry Page. Both Brin and Page attended Montessori schools as children, where independent thinking was nurtured. "It's not like somebody is telling you what to do," Sergey Brin said. "You have to plot your own path." It was something he shared with Page. When asked later whether having parents who were professors was a key to their success, they both cited going to Montessori schools as a more important factor. "I think it was part of that training of not following rules and orders, and being self-motivated, questioning what's going on in the world and doing things a little bit differently," Page contended.What a fantastic reminder of the truly amazing mindset of the Montessori-educated person!

Painting for Peace in Ferguson: An Interview

img (56)During the days of unrest around Ferguson in November and December of 2014, Carol Swartout Klein, a native St. Louisan who grew up in Ferguson, was touched by the spirit of hundreds of volunteers who came together to bring hope to a hurting community. Many people hoping to express their love of St. Louis and all its rich diversity came out to local Ferguson businesses to paint messages of peace, unity, hope, and healing onto the boarded up windows. Swartout Klein took images from this movement to publish the children's book Painting for Peace in Ferguson in February 2015. Some of our own Villa di Maria community were involved in this message of peace and agreed to talk more about their involvement, plus a bit about how the family became involved in Montessori education. Below, the interview with Blaine Deutsch and his daughter Julia, a current upper elementary student here at Villa di Maria. Villa di Maria: Thank you, Blaine and Julia, for agreeing to meet! Can you tell us a bit about your involvement with Painting for Peace? Blaine Deutsch: After the rioting in Ferguson, a lot of the store fronts were damaged and boarded up. There was then a call to the community to come and re-beautify Ferguson, looking for messages of hope and peace to be painted on these boards that were covering the windows. Through some mutual connections, we heard word about it and our whole family headed down right after it happened. Our family participated in painting a few of the boards there, and it was just a really neat community event. There were people from all over the city, and all over the country really, who came out to show their support. It was really nice to see a community function the way it can and should.After the businesses were able to be repaired and reopened, the boards were taken down, collected, and now they sit in a number places as exhibitions. Some are at the History Museum, some are at COCA. The book Painting for Peace in Ferguson was made to document what happened in the community and on the street. Our family is in the book, in photographs that were taken during that time, as we painted two panels.The book is a good representation of what happened and what lead up to the events, as well as sharing some great photos of the community and the work they did. It was neat, because there was no direction given other than just come out and support your community. All the messages were just beautiful. The book came out a few months later, after the painting had taken place, and then a coloring book came out awhile after that.VdM: Can you share a bit about how your family got into Montessori education?Julia: This is my third year here at Villa di Maria. I started at another school in fourth grade. Before this, I was homeschooled, then tried a public school.Blaine: Laura, my wife, is an educator, and had been homeschooling both our girls. Our older daughter decided to attend public school for high school, so that's where she is. But we needed the next step for Julia. Laura took a very holistic approach to education, which is what I feel Montessori provides.Julia: I was struggling in school. It's really hard for me to read, but I'm good at math and science. I had trouble keeping up because they would switch subjects so fast; we were only allowed 45 minutes per subject, so we only learned one or two parts of it. I had trouble understanding what was going on.Blaine: The problems were compounded because Jules is so good at math, so good at science, but she was falling behind because of the reading. We had known about Montessori through my wife, who had been involved in Montessori as an educator through the years. We thought that given our daughter's needs and desires for education, this seemed like the perfect next step, and it has been.I wish my parents had known about Montessori when I was a child. I think there's this impression to the outsider about Montessori that it's easier or slower, or a free-for-all, but it's really quite the opposite! To give outsiders the amazing examples like MMUN, and the fact that they are working on some pretty advanced stuff; not only is it advanced, but it's self-directed. They're absolutely motivated to do it. I truly wish this had been available to me as a child!VdM: Thank you, Blaine and Julia, for sharing your story of Painting for Peace and also your take on Montessori education.

50 Ways of Giving: Community Outreach at Villa di Maria

img (57)photo credit: Melinda SmithIn honor of Villa di Maria's 50th anniversary, we are committing to engage the students, staff, and parents through the community outreach initiative "50 Ways of Giving."Throughout the calendar year, we will host 50 service projects to serve the needs of underserved populations throughout greater St. Louis, including a wide range of social and economic issues such as poverty, hunger, illiteracy, homelessness, women's health, children's health, lack of resource sustainability, and refugee services.  Our service projects will include ongoing goods drives, fundraising actions, and on- and off-site volunteer work, and will allow every member of our community - from the 2 1/2 year-old student to the 100-year-old grandparent - to participate in a meaningful way.First up: Diaper Drive for St. Louis Area Diaper Bank.Nearly a third of families in our country cannot afford the diapers and training pants they need for their infants and toddlers; nor can they gain access to the discount-supply markets, the online or wholesale retailers that many of us take for granted. Disposable diapers are costing low-income families 14% of their annual income, an average of $936 per child per year.From today until January 31, 2017, we hope to collect 3,000 diapers to give to St. Louis Area Diaper Bank. The greatest need is for the larger sizes: 4, 5 and 6. To make donating easier, we have set up an Amazon wish list. You can buy the diapers and have them shipped directly to us! Just click here.If you'd like your child(ren) to experience the act of donating, please have her/him bring the diapers to school and donate the diapers at drop-off. You may leave the diapers at your drop-off point or in the classroom. Discussing these needs as they arise with your child is a big part of involving them in the process, so we encourage you to have many conversations about those in need and what we can do to help!A tenet of the Montessori program is an emphasis on grace and courtesy. Reaching out and giving back to the community has wide implications not only for our small community, but for society at large.Thank you in advance for your donation; it really does make a difference!

Villa di Maria Capital Campaign Kickoff

img (58)This past weekend the people of Villa di Maria marked our 50th Anniversary with a wonderful kickoff party at 612 Kitchen & Cocktails in Kirkwood. The turnout was tremendous; despite frigid cold weather, the atmosphere inside was warm and festive!It was lovely to talk, laugh, and catch up with the Villa community post-holidays, and a perfect reminder to be grateful for the amazing people who make up this place. There were introductions and speeches to commemorate the milestones Villa di Maria has achieved, as well as the brilliant future we strive towards.The future, which includes necessary campus growth to support our expanding population of children, is upon us! We have witnessed the growth firsthand as we drop off our children every morning and note the (amazing) daily progress of the new Elementary Building, which broke ground just before the children arrived for the 2016-2017 school year.In order to begin the next phase, which will include the necessary administrative building and gymnasium, Villa di Maria has set a goal for the Capital Campaign at $1,500,000, which, supplemented by tuition from Villa and Camp Pegnita, will provide us the help needed to complete construction in time for the 2021 school year. Read the entire case statement here, and be sure to donate by going here. So far, we have already raised $102,020 since January 7th of this year, which is amazing! But we still have a long way to go, so be sure to give what you can, and to spread the word so that we can continue providing high-quality AMI-certified Montessori to the St. Louis community.A special thanks to Maria Burr and Michaela Herbst, who pulled together the event so seamlessly! It was a wonderful success!And be sure to watch the beautiful video by our own Tim Gebauer about the Capital Campaign here.

Who We Are: Kim Roberson

img (59)As part of a series we're calling Who We Are, we're working to build and connect our community by interviewing the talented, dynamic parents and staff who make up the people of Villa di Maria. Today, we meet Kim Roberson, mother of one child in Lower Elementary who has been a part of the Villa di Maria community since he was four years old. Kim is also working to develop a diversity committee for parents at Villa di Maria sometime in the new year. Welcome, Kim, and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!Villa di Maria: What do you do (career-wise and any hobbies)?Kim Roberson: Career wise, I currently work in marketing and development for a nonprofit under AmeriCorp and am pursuing a master's degree in education. Prior to this, I spent the last 20 years working as a public relations executive for both corporate and nonprofit organizations. As far as hobbies go, I really enjoy reading and movies. I've been reading a lot of books about education recently. A Light Shines in Harlem and David & Goliath are two I've really enjoyed.VdM: How did you get involved in Montessori?KR: Our son started at my husband's work daycare when he was three years old. We then started looking at private schools. The first private school he attended didn't work out; he was regressing. He went into preschool knowing all these things, but by the end of the year he had lost his confidence and somehow didn't fit into their mold and they wanted him to repeat preschool. We said no and that's when I started looking for other schools. We just wanted to find quality education where he would fit.At first, I looked at all kinds of different schools. Montessori happened to be one of them. At the time, I didn't know much about it. I observed a Montessori class for 45 minutes and I realized this was something different and just might work! I asked my mom, who has been in education for many years both in Chicago and St. Louis) and she said she had only heard good things about Montessori.We enrolled our son in Montessori at four years old, and we saw a complete turnaround. His confidence came back, he came home happy and excited about what he had learned, counting by 100's, etc. I was hooked. I loved that he got to do his work for his desired amount of time.VdM: Do you have any Montessori Moments you'd like to share?KR: Yes! There are so many of them! I remember when our son was in primary, over Christmas break we had gotten him a volcano kit. He had made the volcano and even gathered acorns to decorate it. He has always been into weather and science. He really wanted to take the volcano to school to show his peers, so we asked the Directress and she welcomed the idea. At age five, he took initiative to share what he had learned with his classmates. I love that. I also really like the flexibility with the staff here.I think one of the things I like most about this form of education is that there is this love of learning. My son doesn't know about grades. He is curious and enthusiastic about learning. If something interests him, he dives in and learns about it. He doesn't do work for a grade; he does it because he loves it!VdM: What recommendations do you have for parents who are interested in Montessori education?KR: Go visit a classroom. Try to go without preconceived notions and compare it to your own childhood experiences. I think the Montessori method would benefit many children.Thank you, Kim, for taking the time to chat with us, and to share your thoughts on Montessori. We are so happy that you and your family are a part of this wonderful community!

Stamp Game

img (7)The Stamp Game is a fixture in the Primary Classroom, a much-coveted material that reinforces knowledge in the mathematical operations of addition, subtraction, multiplication, and division. The Stamp Game engages both the hand and the mind with its moveable wooden squares to represent different units of measurement (green units, blue for tens, red for hundreds, and green for thousands). Part of this lesson is to move a child from a concrete method of thinking to a more abstract one (and follows the more concrete lesson of golden beads). Stamp Game itself has evolved since Dr. Maria Montessori originally developed it. Dr. Montessori created the game using actual postage stamps (as collecting postage stamps was popular in that time), then gradually phased out to mosaic tiles, and finally, the wooden tiles that you see today.The first column is where the child writes the units; the second column tens; the third column hundreds, the fourth column thousands. After the directress writes a number, she will then read the number as, for example, if the number is 3289, 9 units, 8 tens, 2 hundreds, and 3 thousands. The directress will then read the number 3289. So much can be learned with stamp game, including abstract thinking, mathematical operations, coordination (those tiles are tiny, and look at the pencil grip!), order, and sequence, to name a few. Besides, it is fun, evidenced by the children's desire to do the work over and over again.

Mentoring in the Elementary Classroom

img (14)Mentoring takes many forms in the Montessori classroom, and even across classroom boundaries. Here at Villa di Maria, mentoring takes place on both an unconscious level and under more formal circumstances. Rebecca Callander, Directress of VdM's Upper Elementary classroom, took the time to explain. The young lady in purple is one of the oldest students at VdM and came to mentor for an hour one morning in the Lower Elementary Checkerboard classroom. Below, the mentoring process, in Rebecca's words.There are levels of mentoring in the Montessori school. In Primary it's unconsciously done, with a great deal of care and love. In Elementary, the second plane child demonstrates a characteristic push toward morality and responsibility unique to their age grouping. In Lower El, the leaders relish an opportunity to work with younger children and to practice reading and helping their younger peers. They are beginning to consciously consider their role of leader and explore what it means to be helpful, but from a more removed standpoint. The oldest child in the school is fully conscious of the role of the mentor. This older child is beginning to identify with the adult more than other children and sees the opportunity as a chance to give back to offer their love and guidance to a school that has loved them and guided them so.How exciting it is then that 6th year Upper Elementary students are beginning the mentoring process in the Lower Elementary! Upper El mentors will model great work and support basic skills lessons with first or second years. Due to the unique situation of a satellite campus, this process requires a bit more logistical prep, but is certainly worth it. In fact, the very fact that more thought has had to go into the details has illuminated the many prominent benefits that mentoring work offers and has made me hyper-aware of how the older children process the experience.  For instance, I have had to discuss the transport plans with parents, alerting parents to the travels, which in turn has revealed just how excited the children are about the opportunity when their parents relay how thrilled the children are! It means something on a deep level to the them.For our first adventure, Bethany (shown in purple) and Kaylee (who was not available on this day) are helping in Megan's room. They arrive a little before school starts and begin the morning by checking in with Megan, then cleaning a shelf (to model conscientious care of environment for younger children), and then act as a support to whomever Megan feels could use a little more guided help, whether it be from a lesson on spelling rules, one-on-one reading, writing, sentence analysis, help with racks and tubes, or something else.I worked with the two girls, paging through my albums, reviewing early lessons with them, and gave them advice on how to present a lesson. They coached each other and discussed, on their own, phrases which imbued the most self-esteem and encouragement without overtaking the lesson or being condescending: "We can't do the work for the children; we need to allow them to do the work."  They also discussed follow-up reading questions. "We shouldn't ask them to just say the names of characters, but ask them what they thought about the character."  "And we shouldn't ask them to write anything down yet, not until they are really good at reading and writing separately."  Yup! Those girls!Also, they snickered, "We should probably review all the rules of spelling because I know I forget how to spell words too."  Nothing like being a leader to keep you honest and on your game.The sixth grade year is one of transition and culmination. Before the VdM student moves from child to adolescent, they go through an exhaustive self-study, perhaps not entirely consciously, but which begins to categorize and sort their accumulated knowledge of the many years they've spent in Montessori. Spending time with first years reminds them from whence they came and helps them to assess who they are becoming.When reviewing racks and tubes, the two girls were initially confronted: "But I don't know how to do this work!"  "I only know abstract long division."  Then a sort of unpacking of the material and process took place. They began to re-experience exchanging and recording with the material. One of the students took notes on the process to ensure she had the details down pat. It reminded me of my own elementary training experience! It was magical.Thank you, Rebecca, for sharing this piece of the Montessori world with us! It is truly a wonderful, meaningful process for all!

A Baby Shower!

img (60)On the Monday before winter break, the children of P1 gathered together on a snowy Monday morning to celebrate Mrs. Jente and the impending arrival of her baby boy. Thanks to some sneaky staff members who pulled together the idea the week before, the children were able to share their favorite (or their parents' favorite) baby book to start a pretty great collection for Jess and her baby. Below, some photos from the touching celebration.The children took turns coming up to present Jess with a book (and there were plenty of extras for those who didn't get a chance to bring one in). Every child had the chance to give, and all were engaged and excited to see what Baby Jente's home library will contain!This was also a good opportunity to celebrate Jess, who has brought so much calm, positive energy to the P1 classroom on a daily basis. She will be greatly missed while she is gone, but the children and staff are so happy for her, her husband, and her growing family! Good luck, Jess, and we can't wait to meet your little one!

2016 Winter Concert

img (61)Although we are all probably ready to move forward into the new year (hooray for 2017!), it is also important to take a look back and reflect on all the hard work the Primary, Lower Elementary, and Upper Elementary classrooms and staff put into the wonderful winter concert on December 21st. The big show, which took place at Keating Center Theater at Kirkwood High School, went off without a hitch, with everyone, great and small, singing and dancing their hearts out. The Primary classes started the concert with 8 songs, accompanied by the ever-patient Nathan Jatcko. The children clearly enjoyed sharing the songs they have been singing in class nearly every day for the past month!After the Primary performance, the Lower Elementary classrooms joined in singing and reciting poetry, quite impressive were the poems about the Mobius strip and Fibonacci numbers.In-between set changes, former Primary Directress (and current Director of Education) Robyn Milos and Lower Elementary Directress Meghan Moffitt Eilers gave touching speeches about their own girlhood experiences at Villa di Maria, true testaments to the special draw this space has on people well beyond the elementary years. It was a delight to hear some of their favorite memories and what they look forward to as Villa di Maria grows.The last part of the concert was a very special, very impressive treat, as the Upper Elementary class put on a play about the Revolutionary War and George Washington's first Christmas at Mount Vernon as the leader of a new nation, all the while tying into current political undertones. The truly amazing thing is that the students completely and totally took up the tasks required for such a production: the costumes (with help from Joanne Brew-Fisher), the dialogue, the concept, the props, the music (with guidance from Nathan Jatcko), and their own personal touches on some pretty great dance moves. It was a joy to watch all the hard work result in such a well-executed production. The students definitely appeared to be enjoying themselves throughout the play!Well done, Villa di Maria students and staff! And Happy New Year!

5 Reasons to Get Your Kids Outside in the Winter Weather

img (30)It may be cold outside, but that's not stopping the children at Villa di Maria from running, playing, climbing, jumping, swinging, digging, balancing, chasing, and burning some energy! We shared why kids need recess here; now let's talk about why it's important in any weather. Below, 5 reasons to get your children outside even when it's cold!It is true that the winter months are the times when we see the most illness. It's flu season, it's cold season, everyone's noses are dripping and little mouths are coughing. But unless your child is very ill, it is still important for him to get outside and running around even in the cold weather. The CDC said, "It strengthens the immune system by allowing your child to escape from indoor germs and bacteria and helps form a resistance to allergies." When children spend prolonged time indoors where the windows cannot be open for circulation (such as during the winter months), germs pass easily from one person to another. The more time you spend indoors, the more exposure you have to germs recirculating in the air. So despite common belief that your child will "catch a cold" out in the cold, it's really the other way around; the fresh clean air is good for him!Playing outside in the winter months, even just for half an hour, can help boost Vitamin D levels, which in turn increases the amount of serotonin in the brain, and together these things can help boost a person's mood. Even a little bit of sunshine can help with that!Another reason to get your children outside during the cold months is for socialization! There is a kind of play that happens outdoors that is different from the kind that happens inside. Children are more creative, imaginative, and active outdoors, especially when their friends are available to join them!Of course, the obvious reason to get outside even when the weather is cold is for the exercise! It's important to remember that children are still growing during this time, and benefit greatly from moving their muscles and getting their hearts pumping. According to the California Childcare Health Program, playing outdoors in the winter "gives children an opportunity for a change of environment, a balance in play and routine, and large muscle activities (gross-motor development)."  And finally, a good reason to get outside during the cold months of the year is for the connection to nature and the observations that cannot be made at other times of the year. The child above fell onto the wood chips, then happened to look down and discover some frost that had formed on one of the larger wood chips. He looked at the ice crystals for some time, clearly happy and interested in what he had discovered, before shouting for his friends to come see it for themselves.As Villa does, just bring your tissues with you!And parents, don't forget to send your children to school with warm coats, hats, gloves, boots, scarves, and even snow pants for the winter weather. Also, Villa encourages your children to bring sleds and other snow-related fun things to share with their friends on extra snowy days! So over winter break, be sure to get outside and play!We'll have some great new blog posts up for you after holiday break. Happy New Year!

Gingerbread Cookies for the Holidays: A Recipe and Some Tips

img (31)The holiday season is a wonderful time to bake with your children, not only for the learning experience, but also for the sharing experience; delicious cookies make a wonderful gift for friends and family. Here, we share a favorite holiday cookie recipe (chewy gingerbread cookies) and a few tips about baking with little ones. While a stool at the kitchen counter works well, a small child-sized table is even better! We carried this one into the kitchen for these two Villa primary students. Having a small table at which to work makes it possible for more than one child to move freely around, and to easily measure, stir, and break eggs at a comfortable height. They're also steadier on their feet!Another tip: set up all the necessary measuring tools and ingredients before asking your child to join you. It gives a good visual of what all is needed, as well as saving time. Show them each step, then let them do it on their own. It's okay if the measurements here are a little off!Cracking eggs: while your child is still learning how to do this, let him crack the eggs into a small container rather than directly into the recipe mixture. That way, if any eggshells find their way in, you can easily fish them out before adding them to the mixture and losing them.

Chewy Gingerbread Cookies

  • 1 1/2 cups unsalted butter, softened to room temperature
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 2 eggs, room temperature
  • 1/2 cup molasses
  • 4 cups flour
  • 4 tsp baking soda
  • 2 tsp salt
  • 2 tsp cinnamon
  • 2 tsp cloves
  • 2 tsp ginger

Preheat oven to 375. Cream butter and sugar together for 2 minutes, until light and fluffy. Add eggs, one at a time, mixing well after each. Add molasses, scraping down the sides of the bowl to incorporate. Mix dry ingredients with a whisk, then add to wet mixture. Mix well. Place into refrigerator for 10 minutes so that dough will not be too sticky.Roll tablespoon-sized amount of cookie dough until round, then place on cookie sheet with parchment (or use nonstick, or grease cookie sheet), being sure to space out evenly, as the cookies will spread in the oven. Bake at 375 for 10 minutes. Allow to cool before removing from cookie sheet. Enjoy, and don't forget to share!Another tip: if you have more than one child helping, be sure to divvy up the tasks so that everyone gets a chance to do each step. We alternated adding dry ingredients and using the whisk to mix it up.A true Montessori moment: cleaning up without being asked!Another opportunity for independence is operating the stand mixer: under supervision, let your child experiment with the different speeds (of course, remind her to never ever put her fingers into the mixing bowl while it is going!).And anything involving an opportunity to get hands messy is a plus…… especially when the mess tastes as great as these gingerbread cookies!Happy Holidays, and we hope you enjoy this recipe!

Construction Tour

img (34)Last week, despite very cold weather, both Lower Elementary and Upper Elementary classrooms were thrilled to bundle up and take a tour of the new Elementary Building. The building has been going up before their very eyes for months, but this was extra special; each child had the opportunity to set foot inside the structure for the first time to see how the building is progressing and to get a sense of its scale. Donning hard hats for safety, the children were taken through in groups to make the tours more manageable.Questions were asked and answered, such as "Will we get stuck in any of the concrete?" and "No, all the concrete has dried and hardened." First, the necessary details!Above, one of the workers showed the children where the fireplace will be -- somewhere around here, in the library. Being within the rooms was very special -- the building is so much larger once you step inside! Also, the windows really are huge!This worker also pointed out where the play yard will be. The children gathered around to peak out the window and imagine the space -- a practice that is getting easier and easier as the building comes along.Here is the west side of the building, and below, the north side.Thank you, BSI Constructors, for taking your time to show the children around, and for your patience and positivity while answering their questions!

December at Villa di Maria

 img (35)It's December at Villa di Maria, and judging from all the singing going on in the Primary and Elementary classrooms alike, the Winter Concert is going to be great!Yes, these flowers were still blooming in early December; can you believe it?!

Yes, these flowers were still blooming in mid-December; can you believe it?! 

There was still plenty of color in the gardens tucked in around campus at the beginning of December. Those flowers held out far longer than usual! It was such a special treat to see them still green and pink and purple before the frost came mid-month.As mother nature does her thing, the cold and frosty weather has arrived...We look forward to all of the fun holiday activities that will take place within the Villa classrooms — from celebrations to practice for the big performance, to pajama day and beyond! We hope you and your families are cozy and well!